[helpniceguy]

Recently I just started attending college, and believe me, what a change. I just met this girl about a week ago too, and also believe me, I've met a LOT of girls here. This one is different, I've never felt this way about anyone, ever, not even my ex. Lol. She's on my mind a lot and I'm not really sure why. She's also one of the most beautiful looking girls I've ever seen. I've spoken with her on two separate occasions and we share a lot of interests. However those two occasions were unplanned. I'm thinking about showing up to one of her band practices so I can see her again, and help me decide more about all these emotions I'm getting about her. Think this is a good idea, and any other suggestions? If so, greatly appreciated.

[GlindaofOz]

Fortunately for you college allows you lots of openings for conversations. The simple question of what do you plan on majoring in is a wonderful starter. You are able to find out about someone's passions and why they want to study a particular subject. You can talk about classes, adjusting to life at school, being away from home for the first time, how crazy people act in the dorms, etc.

I see no harm in attempting to get to know her better. Freshman year is usually pretty exciting since there are so many new people to get to know and a widely expanded dating pool. I would advise you to take your time and get to know her. Best of luck!