My Goodness, you are still very smooth to him. How lucky he was. But anyway, I see this problem might not be fought by confronting and arguing. Since it didn't work that way, right?
So what I suggest here is that why don't you use "coldwar" as a weapon? Just ignore him, if he asks you what's wrong, then you say "well, i guess i should withdraw, i dont like to be the 3rd person in ur life." If he still says he loves you then tell him "i'll always withdraw if u still contact her, i leave u freedom if needed, its her choice to contact u, but its surely YOUR CHOICE to ignore her, but u just didnt, so there, u made the choice and this is its result! I dont confront with u anymore, i just do what i have to do since u didnt really appreciate my words, ok thats it, bye".
Its time for action, lady :D
Goodluck! Be strong and cold!
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