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    Hello Out There Posts: 21, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 13, 2007, 10:27 AM
    Confussed on how to take this.
    I have been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years. Recently I've been noticing he has been going on AOL instant messenger a lot. In the past, I went on his aim account and found him talking to his x before. I was wondering should this worry me or is it nothing
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    Sep 13, 2007, 10:54 AM
    You can b worried but trust him. Don't bother him about it. There is nothing you can really do if he wans to leave. Just trust him and be confident. Mabe start being more independent and going out with out him. Make him wonder what your doing.
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    Sep 13, 2007, 11:06 AM
    Thank you crushedovernover that is some helpful advice. Thank you very much!!
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    Sep 13, 2007, 11:22 AM
    If he wants to talk to his ex there is nothing you can do to stop him. Like crushed said if he wants to leave it will happen. You can't spend your whole life worrying about what someone else is doing. If you have trusted him all this time then keep trusting him. It may be completely innocent and he might just be worried that you would over react if you knew they were still friendly.
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