[xxhopingtearsxx]

I am not going to give out my exact age. Anyway, everyone at my school laughs when they hear I am a virgin. I'm short for my age, that is one main reason why girls don't like me. How do I turn this into a positive? Girls think I'm cute, but only like, "Aw baby cute". I do not like that. I don't like to feel immature, small, and weak.

I had one girlfriend last year. She dumped me right when I was going to dump her. She was my first girlfriend. She lied too much, she had more relationships than she said, she was sarcastic a lot and mean, and demanded me to talk on the phone even when I had nothing to say.

Is that the only type of person I could get? I don't want to be lonely for the rest of my life. My big brother is 21, a virgin, never had his first kiss nor been in a relationship. Please help me.

Oh, also Homegirl 50 don't be offended but I just forgot to mention this. Please do not say anything about its not wrong being a virgin. In my school, it is. Also, I feel ready!

[Homegirl 50]

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin.

[Lez]

If your still at school then your not the legal age not having a dig but this is true. As for people not likeing you because of the way you look they are narrow minded the way I see it is if they can rip the p**s out of other they have a insercurity problem with there selfs you don't get far in life with that sort of attitude to many people are too quick to gudge. Don't see being a virgin in a bad way there's so many kids that get pregnant too young and all the sexualy transmited stuff id rather know that I'm clean and that the first time you do is with that special person that you know and feel is right maybe an old fashion way of looking at things but hey it's the safer option. Don't be so hard on yourself with thinking no one likes you look at the people you do have love in and cherrish that confidence goes a long way. X

[friend4u178]

Homegirl is right , there is absolutely wrong with being a virgin. Listen to Homegirl she is a smart lady and always gives good advise , not necessarily what you want to hear but the truth. You will find someone , you are still young and there are plenty of young people who don't find a relationship until into their 20's. Be patient my friend!

[star3114]

You know, I was the same way. When you are older it will all make sense. Quite frankly, sex is a pain. There is so much risk and unless you are actually in a long term relationship (aka marriage) it really isn't that good. Keep you spirits up... waiting isn't a bad thing. Just think of all of the STD's that you are missing out on that "everyone else" is getting. That amusing thought carried me through much of my high school years.

[Skell]

You're 13 right?

I find it hard to believe that all your friends have had sex. And if they have then they shouldn't have.

[Homegirl 50]

There are an awful lot of young kids that are probably telling lies bragging about sex. 13 is too young to be having sex anyway. If they are having sex that young, they shouldn't be and it sure isn't anything to be proud of.