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    SWEETDREAMS Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 12, 2007, 08:08 AM
    Hi. I am a 36 years old female and has been seeing a man for 3 years we have been fri
    Hi. I am a 36 years old female and has been seeing a man for 3 years we have been friends since I was 17 and about 3 years ago that grew into something more. He is everything to me my best friend my lover and my partner.
    There is no one I would like to spend my time with except for him. He is 56 years old and is still very active in every way. He races and we 4-wheel ride. Please help is our age healthy or is this a mistake.
    Thank you .
    Just want to be happy!
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    Sep 12, 2007, 08:21 AM
    Dear Sweedreams..

    If you love each other and have a wonderful time together with many interests in common, what is worrying you?

    Are you stressed by what others might think about your relationship? You should not be.

    You have know each other for a long time, fate (or whatever) drew you to each other, and if you both are happy with each other just the way you are, then by all means enjoy your life, grow closer, and feel the warmth and comfort in each other that you deserve.

    Only you know what you want in life and only you can make choices that will be good for you.

    There have been couples with greater age differences so don't let that bother you.
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    Sep 12, 2007, 08:26 AM
    I think once someone gets past the age of 25 that age stops being an issue. As long as you have common interests, enjoy your relationship.
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    Sep 12, 2007, 09:15 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by SWEETDREAMS
    and is still very active in every way
    Hello Sweet:

    ;) ;)

    Sounds like a keeper.

    excon
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    Sep 12, 2007, 09:58 AM
    You love him and he's good to you. What more could you want in a partner? :)

    No worries, hun. You sound happy!
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    Sep 12, 2007, 11:24 AM
    Hi Sweetdreams.

    My wife is exactly 20 years younger than me. We will celebrate of 5th wedding anniversary this Nov 2nd (dated for 5 years before marriage.) I have been so blessed and have NEVER been happier. From what I see, feel and from what she tells me she is very happy also. (says she loves me, many hugs daily)

    My life changed the day I met her, now I understand what love should be. SHE changed my life and brought sunshine along with her.
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    Sep 17, 2007, 08:05 AM
    Go for it!!
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    Sep 17, 2007, 10:38 AM
    I say that it is wonderful that you two are together. I don't see a problem at all! Keep up the spirit and have lot's of laughs together!
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    Nov 1, 2010, 03:19 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Stringer View Post
    Hi Sweetdreams.

    My wife is exactly 20 years younger than me. We will celebrate of 5th wedding anniversary this Nov 2nd (dated for 5 years before marriage.) I have been so blessed and have NEVER been happier. From what I see, feel and from what she tells me she is very happy also. (says she loves me, many hugs daily)

    My life changed the day I met her, now I understand what love should be. SHE changed my life and brought sunshine along with her.
    Wow so happy to hear, this gives me a lot of hope in my relationship.:)
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