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    Sep 11, 2007, 03:13 AM
    NO confidence
    Im meant to be going college today to talk about what I want to do.. And I'm scared I've got confidence in other aspects of my life but starting college is scary I got attackd in school and dropped out and fell into a depression and startd self-harming I'm trying to get over that its working but slowly. I've just moved into my own flat so I have confidence in other issues etc having to sort bills out and apporach people likie council and that but college I feel like its going to be like school I feel like I'm not going to make friends or if I do there going to just backstab me I know it sounds stupid but it's a fear I have.. I woke up this morning and my nerves started I know if I don't go il never conquer it.. I don't know I feel like people are going to judge me like they did in school, its taken me 4years to get here and I don't want to drop it but I'm scared I will. :confused:
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    Sep 11, 2007, 03:57 AM
    Wow! You're going to college! That is a big step!

    You will make friends there. You will meet people who are interested in the same things that you are.

    You will also meet people who are much more mature than those people who backstabbed you in high school.

    You can turn your "scars into stars" if you try!

    Please just continue to share. Others will be along to offer their helpful advice also.

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