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    nayame79 Posts: 6, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 3, 2007, 06:52 PM
    Friend can't keep secrets
    My friend and I have known each other for 5yrs and I always told her things about me. All the relationships mistakes I have made in life. Few months ago I cheated on my husband and she was the first person I told. I needed someone to talk to and she was there not knowing everything I tell her she tells her boyfriend who I have notice now that he doesn't respect me.

    I have confess the cheating to my husband he took me back and we have put all that behind us. My husband told me as long as we can deal with the problems ourself and people don't have to know. What he doesn't know is, my friend knows and I can bet my life she has told her boyfriend

    What hurts me the most is I am very good in keeping her secrets. What she tells me about stay within me and I don't tell no one

    I don't have proof she told her boyfriend but I can tell the way the boyfriend is acting towards me. He suddenly disrespect me and the statements he makes every time I'm around him. Like (how can someone cheat on their husband)

    Any advice on what I should do regarding all this. Please
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    letmetellu Posts: 3,151, Reputation: 317
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    Sep 3, 2007, 07:22 PM
    First of all do not do anything that you would be ashamed of your husband knowing. Next is the girlfriend... well she will not be a problem anymore because she will not know anything that can hurt you.
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    Sep 4, 2007, 09:51 AM
    You don't have to tell her anything else. Good for you for coming clean, that must have taken a load off!
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    Sep 4, 2007, 03:10 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by nayame79
    my friend and i have known each other for 5yrs and i always told her things about me. all the relationships mistakes i have made in life. few months ago i cheated on my husband and she was the first person i told. i needed someone to talk to and she was there not knowing everything i tell her she tells her boyfriend who i have notice now that he doesn't respect me.

    i have confess the cheating to my husband he took me back and we have put all that behind us. my husband told me as long as we can deal with the problems ourself and people don't have to know. what he doesn't know is, my friend knows and i can bet my life she has told her boyfriend

    what hurts me the most is i am very good in keeping her secrets. what she tells me about stay within me and i don't tell no one

    i don't have proof she told her boyfriend but i can tell the way the boyfriend is acting towards me. he suddenly disrespect me and the statements he makes everytime i'm around him. like (how can someone cheat on their husband)

    any advice on what i should do regarding all this. please
    Anything we can do for you to get you through this, we will do our best. Good job again. And Hugs to you! Start
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    Sep 4, 2007, 03:27 PM
    I don't think that you should let her know any of your secrets. If you want to talk about something you should go to your husband and tlak to him about it and just so that your husband doesn't decide to leave you DON'T ever cheat on him again. Unless he has cheated or has does something wrong, he doesn't deserve that but if he has then he doesn't deserve you.
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    Sep 8, 2007, 04:44 AM
    I do agree with letmetellu... I think you should stay away from her step by step... and do not share with her anything anymore...

    Ms. Redrose

    Quote Originally Posted by nayame79
    my friend and i have known each other for 5yrs and i always told her things about me. all the relationships mistakes i have made in life. few months ago i cheated on my husband and she was the first person i told. i needed someone to talk to and she was there not knowing everything i tell her she tells her boyfriend who i have notice now that he doesn't respect me.

    i have confess the cheating to my husband he took me back and we have put all that behind us. my husband told me as long as we can deal with the problems ourself and people don't have to know. what he doesn't know is, my friend knows and i can bet my life she has told her boyfriend

    what hurts me the most is i am very good in keeping her secrets. what she tells me about stay within me and i don't tell no one

    i don't have proof she told her boyfriend but i can tell the way the boyfriend is acting towards me. he suddenly disrespect me and the statements he makes everytime i'm around him. like (how can someone cheat on their husband)

    any advice on what i should do regarding all this. please
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    Sep 8, 2007, 10:15 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by nayame79
    my friend and i have known each other for 5yrs and i always told her things about me. all the relationships mistakes i have made in life. few months ago i cheated on my husband and she was the first person i told. i needed someone to talk to and she was there not knowing everything i tell her she tells her boyfriend who i have notice now that he doesn't respect me.

    i have confess the cheating to my husband he took me back and we have put all that behind us. my husband told me as long as we can deal with the problems ourself and people don't have to know. what he doesn't know is, my friend knows and i can bet my life she has told her boyfriend

    what hurts me the most is i am very good in keeping her secrets. what she tells me about stay within me and i don't tell no one

    i don't have proof she told her boyfriend but i can tell the way the boyfriend is acting towards me. he suddenly disrespect me and the statements he makes everytime i'm around him. like (how can someone cheat on their husband)

    any advice on what i should do regarding all this. please
    Try to avoid contact with that person's boy friend for some long term, all those sort of thoughts will wash away from him and You should try not to repeat such mistake!

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