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    Waiting4him453 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 2, 2007, 11:01 PM
    Ive been threw hell
    the past 3 years This guy I like love has hurt me a lot and yet I still like him. I asked him out in 6th grade he said no because “his mom said he couldnt date” then in 7th grade I find out that it was a lie and he just didn't want to date me. Then in 8th grade he sends me an email telling me to back off when I hadn't said more than hi since 6th grade. I'm scared I'm not going to make it to my senior year in high school. Life is just getting too hard to handle I'm tired of it HELP
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    Sep 2, 2007, 11:07 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Waiting4him453
    the past 3 years This guy i like love has hurt me a lot and yet i still like him. I asked him out in 6th grade he said no because “his mom said he couldnt date” then in 7th grade i find out that it was a lie and he just didnt wanna date me. Then in 8th grade he sends me an email telling me to back off when i hadnt said more than hi since 6th grade. im scared im not gonna make it to my senior year in highschool. Life is just getting too hard to handle im tired of it HELP
    Ask yourself why you like him? When I was younger, I felt the same way about boys that didn't give me attedntion or rejected me. And believe me things will change after high school. Things will change during your senior year. Don't let him ruin your senior year, enjoy it have fun

    Ignore him, be distant with him, don't show him you care, the less attention you give the sooner they will be crawling to you. Believe me.

    I know its hard to move on, but give it a shot, try to think positive and things can change. Start going out with friends and meet new guys, hang out, avoid him as much as you can.

    Things will fall into place, believe me, enjoy your high school years, life is ONLY going to get harder. But the only way to get through it is by being strong, patient, believing in yourself,
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    Sep 2, 2007, 11:29 PM
    One chick I went out with said "sorry, i gotta dump you, my boyfriends are meant to meet my parents first, and seeing as how my parents arent here i gotta dump you, you understand?"
    Its called "an excuse"
    Yrs 11 and 12 are the very best school years of your life
    Don't miss them, they are the best, the hardest, the most stressfull, but the very best.
    Think positive. You will find someone perfect for you someday, until then, all the guys are just narrowing it down, practice, life experience, etc.
    We all get tired of life, but trust me, its great
    Be positive, look at the good things.
    There's so much good in your future, people to meet, to love, to help, lives will be changed for better or worse by you. Make it be the better. You only get to live life once, and there's so much good things to do and see and to experience, any bad thing you do, any wasted second, and unhappy day, is such a huge waste. Smile.
    You get dumped? Smile, because it just means your closer to the one who is meant for you.
    You get pushed around? Hold your head high, because when the confident one with the smile on their face and their head held hi speaks, everyone listens and takes notice,
    You take a fall in life? Get up, because as long as you get up, you have never failed
    You feel like there's no hope? Soldier on anyway, as long as you keep trying, you can at least look back and say "hey, it was a tough time, it felt so hopeless, but I did my best, I kept going, and look where I am now! I'm out of that rough patch, I overcame it, I defeated that adversity, and I'm stronger for it.
    And you will overcome this, you will be stronger for it. You will find the guy of your dreams.
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    Sep 2, 2007, 11:40 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Waiting4him453
    the past 3 years This guy i like love has hurt me a lot and yet i still like him. I asked him out in 6th grade he said no because “his mom said he couldnt date” then in 7th grade i find out that it was a lie and he just didnt wanna date me. Then in 8th grade he sends me an email telling me to back off when i hadnt said more than hi since 6th grade. im scared im not gonna make it to my senior year in highschool. Life is just getting too hard to handle im tired of it HELP
    I have the same matter -_-

    I hurt my girl many times...
    Though I love her more than anything..

    For your matter... Its obvious he doesn't love you... Does he?
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    Sep 2, 2007, 11:44 PM
    It sucks when you hurt the people you love doesn't it?
    I went through a time when I had almost daily changes of heart/mood swings/ crisiss of faith
    I hurt my friends so much in that time, and I still feel indebted to my friends and to the people I love for their tolerance in that time.

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