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    narine280 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 22, 2007, 08:56 PM
    Am I losing him?
    How do you know if you are losing someone? Can anyone give me signs clues.. :confused:


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    He still calls me just.. still tells me he loves me... kisses me the same as ever... we talk about each others day and laugh and stuff maybe I'm just being paroniod... I think this past week we have been working so much so I think it just made me nervous... I don't see any of those signs... we just been working a lot and have been sick... so its just in my head right?
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    Aug 22, 2007, 10:24 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by narine280
    how do you know if you are loosing someone? Can anyone give me signs clues.. :confused:
    If he is not calling u frequently as before
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    Aug 22, 2007, 10:49 PM
    If you have to ask that questions then chances are that you are or have lost him!

    More info needed though?
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    Aug 23, 2007, 12:23 AM
    HI there... take it easy on yourself... well I do agree with skell & Sudhirjeevan... in addition if you are having physical relationship it won't be frequent as before.. Same goes for spending time with you he will come up with excuses such as busy, tired, had to see friends... Well, the best way to get out of this hell ( I call it that way because I faced it too ) is by confronting with him ask him straight forward that you feel that he had changed recently mentioning what made you feel that way and ask him if he want to break up... because maybe he want to break up but he does not has the courage to face you or maybe he is cheating on you... so it's better to know and finalize it instead of suffering that way... and you can go over him... and remember... WHATEVER HAPPEN... HAPPENS FOR THE BEST...

    Take care of yourself.

    Ms. Redrose
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    Aug 23, 2007, 06:00 AM
    My ex has broken up with me 5-6 times and it's been 6 1/2 months on this break up. Know that the emotional dust has settled I can look back and remember signs she was going to breakup with me here are some through out all my breakups.

    1) When we were making love or talking in person she would look at my eyes and look very sad.
    2) Wouldn't call as much or talk as much on the phone.
    3) She would say "I need to think about my future" or "get my life in order".
    4) When I would try to kiss her she wouldn't be as effectionate.
    5) When I did things for her she would say "you didn't have to do that" She seemed guilty.
    6) Look me in the eyes less and less
    7) When we hugged she wouldn't hug as tight as before.
    8) Wasn't as happy as she was before.
    9) When I asked if their was a problem she would say their was nothing wrong with no emotion or she would get mad or snotty with me when I asked.

    When I look back now, I can see all those signs so clearly. As for you, if you think you are losing him you probably are correct. If this is bothering you I would confront him and ask if theirs a problem. If he say no without any emotion their probably is a good chance you are.
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    Aug 23, 2007, 07:10 AM
    SAB123 I seen the same signs now that I think of my situation.
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    Aug 23, 2007, 07:32 AM
    One door closes, the other one opens.
    Stay open minded and be alert with other opportunities. And if you don't move on, I doubt if u will see the other door.
    Good luck.
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    Aug 23, 2007, 07:33 AM
    He still calls me just.. still tells me he loves me... kisses me the same as ever... we talk about each others day and laugh and stuff maybe I'm just being paroniod... I think this past week we have been working so much so I think it just made me nervous... I don't see any of those signs... we just been working a lot and have been sick... so its just in my head right?
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    Aug 23, 2007, 07:43 AM
    Well I think you are being paroniod, but now you know what some of the signs are.
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    Aug 23, 2007, 09:05 AM
    I think so too I just need more opinions to help you know
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    Aug 23, 2007, 09:47 AM
    Add on to am I losing him
    How do you know if you are losing someone? Can anyone give me signs clues..


    Add on:
    He still calls me just.. still tells me he loves me... kisses me the same as ever... we talk about each others day and laugh and stuff maybe I'm just being paroniod... I think this past week we have been working so much so I think it just made me nervous... I don't see any of those signs... we just been working a lot and have been sick... so its just in my head right?

    We fought during this week of all the crazy heticness.. and I made him a card apologizing saying that it was dumb and all of that and asking him not to get rid of me just yet... he turned to me held my face looked into my eyes lovingly and kissed me... so I am just being paroniod right??

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