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angiegirl88 · Aug 20, 2007, 11:17 AM

Well I've been married for about a year, and of course I'm happy with my husband and son, I have one problem that bothers me. Since about a month or so after we got married, my husband doesn't really kiss m anymore. Before, we used to kiss and make out all the time, but not anymore. The only way he'll kiss me is if I ask for one and he just gives me a cheap little peck. I mean, I'm not asking for a big sloppy one, but a nice romantic kiss evry now and then would be nice. He'll probably give me a good kiss like once a month. I can probably count the times he's kissed me. I've talked to him about it, and he said that maybe if I wouldn't try to kiss him so much, then that would give him a chance to kiss me on his own. So I stopped kissing him, I would only give him a kiss when leaving to work and before going to sleep. I stayed like that for the past 2-3 months, and nothing. And I bring it up he just says that there is no specific reason. That's what I don't get. If there's no specific reason, then why won't he kiss me? Now when I try explaining how I feel, he just ignores me and says that him not kissing me isn't the end of the world. That gets me upset and then we either end up arguing or he just ignores and give me the "silent treatment", I know, very childish of him. Its not that he's not romantic with me at all, because yeah he hugs me and he'll say " i love u" every once in a while, but it's the kissing part that bothers me. I don't know if to leave it alone and see what happens or to keep trying to talk to him. If there's anyone who can relateor even just give some advice, pleas help...

kt1205 · Aug 20, 2007, 11:26 AM

Me and my boyfriend have been together 2 years. At first we would kiss and stuff now we don't anymore. He always had excuses. Then one day he said it means difffernt things to him and it means goodbye. 10% of people do not kiss. It makes me sad that he doesn't want to but he also doesn't see the points. In our relationship, kissing, hugging holding hands or whatever isn't important. What is important is that we don't lie, trust, obey, and love each other. I wish he would want to do that other stuff too. But some people are just that way.

Treeny · Aug 20, 2007, 09:54 PM

I think I should have been born male ,LOL I have all the same probleams as the men I'm hearing about on here.
I hate to kiss Ithink its kind of gross. I used to when it was all new but now it just seems silly and gross.

kt1205 · Aug 20, 2007, 10:11 PM

Since my boyfriend doesn't want to after a while I kind of quit wanting to but sometimes it makes me sad that he doesn't want to. One time he said "whats the point? why dont we just walk around on our hands next to each other? what does kissing have to do with anything?" lol

11sibra · Aug 25, 2007, 08:41 PM

Originally Posted by angiegirl88

well i've been married for about a year, and of course im happy with my husband and son, i hav one problem that bothers me. since about a month or so after we got married, my husband doesnt really kiss m anymore. before, we used to kiss and make out all the time, but not anymore. the only way he'll kiss me is if i ask for one and he just gives me a cheap little peck. i mean, im not asking for a big sloppy one, but a nice romantic kiss evry now and then would be nice. he'll probably give me a good kiss like once a month. i can probably count the times he's kissed me. i've talked to him about it, and he said that maybe if i wouldn't try to kiss him so much, then that would give him a chance to kiss me on his own. so i stopped kissing him, i would only give him a kiss when leaving to work and before going to sleep. i stayed like that for the past 2-3 months, and nothing. and i bring it up he just says that there is no specific reason. that's what i dont get. if there's no specific reason, then why won't he kiss me? now when i try explaning how i feel, he just ignores me and says that him not kissing me isnt the end of the world. that gets me upset and then we either end up arguing or he just ignores and give me the "silent treatment", i know, very childish of him. its not that he's not romantic with me at all, because yeah he hugs me and he'll say " i love u" every once in a while, but its the kissing part that bothers me. i dont know if to leave it alone and see what happens or to keep trying to talk to him. if there's anyone who can relateor even just give some advice, pleas help...

I feel sorry for you as I feel for me. I have the same problem with my husband. Kiss for me is the best way to start anything. A romantic kiss can make you crazy. My husband kisses me just on my lips without using his tongue and without hug me or touch me. We never had an oral sex and I believe that his head is full of "TABU" that blocks his actions. Also he is so conservative, if I change clothes in front of him so he leaves the room saying "excuse me".
Again about kiss: don't stop to enjoy a kiss. It's the best affection in the world. One day you will find someone who can read your mind when you want to be kissed. Good Luck!

AandZ4ever · Sep 2, 2007, 08:49 PM

Originally Posted by angiegirl88

well i've been married for about a year, and of course im happy with my husband and son, i hav one problem that bothers me. since about a month or so after we got married, my husband doesnt really kiss m anymore. before, we used to kiss and make out all the time, but not anymore. the only way he'll kiss me is if i ask for one and he just gives me a cheap little peck. i mean, im not asking for a big sloppy one, but a nice romantic kiss evry now and then would be nice. he'll probably give me a good kiss like once a month. i can probably count the times he's kissed me. i've talked to him about it, and he said that maybe if i wouldn't try to kiss him so much, then that would give him a chance to kiss me on his own. so i stopped kissing him, i would only give him a kiss when leaving to work and before going to sleep. i stayed like that for the past 2-3 months, and nothing. and i bring it up he just says that there is no specific reason. that's what i dont get. if there's no specific reason, then why won't he kiss me? now when i try explaning how i feel, he just ignores me and says that him not kissing me isnt the end of the world. that gets me upset and then we either end up arguing or he just ignores and give me the "silent treatment", i know, very childish of him. its not that he's not romantic with me at all, because yeah he hugs me and he'll say " i love u" every once in a while, but its the kissing part that bothers me. i dont know if to leave it alone and see what happens or to keep trying to talk to him. if there's anyone who can relateor even just give some advice, pleas help...

OK don't take this really serious but honestly these are signs of another woman have you asked him

naughtymoon · Sep 3, 2007, 12:47 AM

Listen first you should think about your marriage and your son that is the most important thing don't let this problem to spoil your marriage. Try to ask him but in the wright time maybe when you ask him he is not in mood or he is so tiered because he is working all day .
Some of them think these are silly stuff to do because after having kids they become more responsible and they don't care about small thing but it is so big with the other side