[Desmiley]

Hi everyone. I am very new to this and not quite sure how to start. I am 30 yrs old and in a very troubled marriage. For a while now I have been truly researching my life. From the things that I do to what I say and I recently came upon an eye opener of myself esteem. I was listening to this talk show in regards to low self esteem and it dawned on me some explanation to my lying to people about my life. I in general am not happy. However I began analizing my conversations with people and it could be the littliest thing and I will lie about it so it feels to me important. Now I am truly beginning to believe that I am a pathological liar and I have all the signs and now I feel that my whole life has been a lie. Does anyone know where to go to for help on the internet. I am so ashamed with myself. I don't want anybody that knows me to know. I am terrified that my life will be over if I don't get help. If anyone has any information that can lead me in the right direction I would certainly appreciate it. Thanks.

[fredg]

Hi,
I suggest you go to a real person; such as a counselor, family or marriage counselor, or some other professional, and talk about it. There is nothing like a one-on-one conversation with a real person to find out about yourself.
You can search http://www.google.com, or any search engine, typing in "pathological liar", without quotes. There will be many links to view and do some research.
Please make an appointment with some type of counselor. You can check your local phone book for possibly free services along these lines.
If you think your marriage is in deep trouble, talk with your spouse about it. Make an appointment with a Marriage Counselor.
Best wishes,
fredg

[jurplesman]

Hello Desmiley,

I have given a similar reply at:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showpo...46&postcount=4