Help!

sweetangel15 · Aug 18, 2005, 08:07 AM

I am a 15 year old female and I'm a virgin. I'm tired of being a virgin, and I would like to try masturbating. I have tried stimulating my , and it felt good and all, but I think I'm ready for vaginal penetration and I want to do that really badly. PLEASE help me or give me some directions on how to do that, because I really want to do this. Yes I do know that I could bleed or wutever but I don't care anymore. I'm ready, so PLEAS help me. And give me as much detail as possible. Thanks, I appreciate it! :confused:

fredg · Aug 20, 2005, 06:24 AM

Hi,
At 15, you want to lose your virginity??
There isn't any good reason you can give to do that!!
Keep it... you will be so very, very glad later that you have.
Best wishes,
fredg

shenda · Aug 20, 2005, 01:30 PM

Your virginity is a treasure to behold, it is not something that you want to give away without a ring, without marriage, if you want to save yourself from countless hardache and shame. You want to do it, why? It will not make you more of a woman than you are already. Remember that sex is more than a physical exchange, it is also a mental exchange. What happens when the boy you give it up to mistreats you, say bad things about you, gives you a reputation that is not so easily removed. It is a good thing to be a virgin, you keep your self-respect and dignity. It is not All it is cracked up to be; so come down to reality. Keep yourself at all cost until you are ready for marriage, or at least until you have entered into a serious relationship with someone very, very, very... special, who loves you and not your body. If you are only what your body can produce, do not be surprised when others treat you that way. You have so much life ahead of you, there will be plenty of time for sex, right now, focus on education, plan for college. Remember, it only takes one time... to get pregnant... then your life will drastically change. Do not be in a hurry...

fredg · Aug 21, 2005, 04:14 AM

Hi,
The other answer given is great.
I forgot to add the following:
If he enters you, there is no 100% guarantee that you will not get pregnant.
NO measures, whether pills, condoms, foams, etc, are absolutely safe from pregnancy... remember that!
Best of luck,
fredg

sweetangel15 · Aug 21, 2005, 07:33 PM

Thanks guys your right. I appreciate the advice. I'll keep my virginity! Thanks. ;)

fredg · Aug 23, 2005, 05:45 AM

Hi, SweetAngel,
This is just another thought you might be interested in. I do hope your decision to keep your virginity continues to be true.
On National TV news the other night, an astounding announcement was made:
40% of all girls in the US become pregnant by the time they are 20 yrs old.

That is amazing. I do hope you are not one of them.
Keep up the faith.
fredg

sweetangel15 · Aug 23, 2005, 10:06 AM

Thanks again for the info. I'll stay a virgin until I get married, don't worry.

Plinko · Sep 15, 2005, 12:29 AM

Do not loose your virginity that young! I am a horny teenage boy (16) but I think the girls who are already screwin at this age are sickening! :eek: BUT.. masturbation is cool! ;) I do it.. im a boy but I know lots of girls who do it. I have seen videos of girls doing it also and with one hand you rub the or whatever the top of the vagina is?. and then stick a dildoe in it at the same time. Not really sure cause porn can be fake a lot of the time. But I don't think it takes a genious to figure it out. Please tell me if I'm wrong!

rajeevsrai · Nov 12, 2005, 10:41 PM

Hi there
Let me make very clear to u.
Sex is an incredible experience and you have to do it same day
Earlier you start more you have of it.believe me.
First time it hurts a bit to gals but then it's fun.
Go and have that thing in you soon
Love a lot

czuboka · Nov 13, 2005, 02:07 AM

Just happened to see this post and read the replys, and noticed that they don't really make sense. Seems to me you were talking about masturbation and not having sex with a guy. I am not about to give you any tips on it but I just wanted to make sure that you know that that is perfectly healthy. You shouldn't feel guilty about it either. Hopefully someone will reply with some tips for you.

czuboka · Nov 13, 2005, 02:08 AM

Just so you know... If you maturbate and penetrate yourself with your hand, you are still a virgin. To lose your virginity you would actually have to have sex.

rajeevsrai · Nov 13, 2005, 10:07 PM

Originally Posted by czuboka

Just happened to see this post and read the replys, and noticed that they don't really make sense. Seems to me you were talking about masterbation and not having sex with a guy. I am not about to give you any tips on it but I just wanted to make sure that you know that that is perfectly healthy. You shouldn't feel guilty about it either. Hopefully someone will reply with some tips for you.

czuboka
Thanks for the advice but I mean having real sex with a real guy.
And I assure you this is great experience especially for the first time if you choose your partner with brain working.
Thanks

wilkinslaedi · Nov 13, 2005, 10:15 PM

This is a bogus thread!! Look at HIS profile!! You should consider what you do on a forum before you do it!! Grow up or get off!!

PrettyLady · Nov 14, 2005, 10:03 PM

Originally Posted by wilkinslaedi

THIS IS A BOGUS THREAD!!!! LOOK AT HIS PROFILE!!! YOU SHOULD CONSIDER WHAT YOU DO ON A FORUM BEFORE YOU DO IT!!! GROW UP OR GET OFF!!!!

People don't necessarily give their real names when they come here for advice. Her username is clearly feminine.

Originally Posted by czuboka

Just happened to see this post and read the replys, and noticed that they don't really make sense. Seems to me you were talking about masterbation and not having sex with a guy. I am not about to give you any tips on it but I just wanted to make sure that you know that that is perfectly healthy. You shouldn't feel guilty about it either. Hopefully someone will reply with some tips for you.

I see what your saying, czuboka. The member sweetangel15 wasn't talking about having sex with a guy, she was referring to masturbation. But she did mention that she was tired of being a virgin and she was ready to have vaginal penetration, which lead Fred and shenda to believe that she wants to lose her virginity. The comments that were given by Fred and shenda were good because sweetangel15 has replied by saying that she was going to stay a virgin.

Originally Posted by sweetangel15

i am a 15 year old female and i'm a virgin. i'm tired of being a virgin, and i would like to try masturbating. i have tried stimulating my , and it felt good and all, but i think im ready for vaginal penetration and i want to do that really badly. PLEASE help me or give me some directions on how to do that, because i really want to do this. yes i do know that i could bleed or wutever but i don't care anymore. i'm ready, so PLEAS help me. and give me as much detail as possible. thanks, i appreciate it! :confused:

If you insert your fingers or other objects with force during masturbation, you may break your hymen. But many women break their hymens by using tampons or through other nonsexual activities. Penetration through masturbation doesn't violate the definition of virginity. However, your still very young, so you wouldn't want to engage in an activity that will rip elastic membrane.

I understand that you didn't want to be a virgin anymore. I had boyfriends when I was a teenager, however, I held on to my virginity until I was older. I am sure that you made the right decision to stay a virgin. You're only 15 and you have a whole life ahead of you. So enjoy being a teen, don't be in a hurry to grow up too fast. Remember that your first time with a guy should be special and don't feel pressured to do it early. The longer you wait the better it will be. When your ready to be in a relationship, make sure you really love somebody before you give them something as important as your virginity.

greatinbed · Nov 15, 2005, 01:00 PM

Hello, sex is great as if you haven't noticed but sex is much more enjoyable and fulfulling if it's with someone you love and if that person really loves you back. How many times have I woken up in someone else's bed thinking to myself, "yuck, what was I thinking." Your virginity is worth it.

xspacebunnyxx · Jan 26, 2010, 08:50 AM

There right I lost my virginity at 15 because I though it was big and clever but now several years later I am remebered for being the girl that lost it aged 15 :/ its much better to be in a loving relationship and I have only just got into one of those and we still have had sex so I believe this is better than rushing into it I pretended to myself I was still a virgin after my first time and then didn't have sex for over a year and a half but the fact that I just lost it means that I have lost one of the most personal and precious thing that cannot be replaced I just wasted what should have been the most wonderful experience of my live its not amazing the first time anyway so.. . You chose well :)

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