[donotrun]

I am wondering about this man who had a terrible history with women and now I am dating (I did not know about his horrible past, which are bad relationships and dirty dirty sex). I believe he likes me a lot as his girlfriend but I am afraid of him, I think he will hurt me emotionally. What should I do?

[talaniman]

Is this the same guy in your other posts? Is this the abused one or the one that you broke up with and he still has your phone? Sorry I'm so confused here.

[Skell]

If your afraid of him then you shouldn't be in a relationship with him. Simple as that!

This is confusing.

[cal823]

Some people leave their pasts behind.
I've left who I used to be far behind, and would you judge me by who I was, or by who I am?
You need to figure out if he was a bad person, or if he is a bad person

[Michelle0410]

I agree with the above, HOWEVER, be careful when figuring out if he was bad or if he is bad, a lot of people will hide the tru side of themselves until they feel like they have you where they want you. I don't want to be too negative toward this guy, he very well could be being genuine to you, but you have to be very careful trying to figure out if he has changed because SOME people do not change!

[Haplo]

I'm curious how this translates into "men in relationships" :p

Are all men being judged by this one question?

[cal823]

Pelase don't judge all of us by one possibly rotten apple :) please :)