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    swabie Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 8, 2007, 10:58 AM
    I like my friend
    Please help
    I have been hanging out with this girl. We had really become good buddies . Going out together talking about general things. But I like her very much. I don't know how she feels. She is been giving me simple looks but she slightly mentioned that she takes me as a good friend. Recently with all other friends we hang up but all over a sudden she distanced herself and when I contacted her about five times the only response was she needs space and time and need me respect that. I miss talking to her and would do anything to just talk to her. Can u help?kk
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    Aug 8, 2007, 11:11 AM
    Do as she says. Give her all the time and space she needs. If you happen to see her, say a quick hello and leave it at that. She may have found out how you feel and doesn't want to lead you on. In any case, be patient and get busy with other things. Lots of healthy things. When she see's you've moved on, she'll feel it's okay to talk again. If she see's you're just hanging on and staying around like a puppy dog, she won't return.
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    Aug 8, 2007, 12:46 PM
    Be glad you didn't fall in any deeper, and do as she wishes, and give her space. Leave her all the way alone, but be polite as momincali points out.
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    Aug 8, 2007, 01:22 PM
    Yep, if you push her now and demand more then you'll probably lose it all. Give her the space and time that she needs.
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