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Aug 5, 2007, 06:55 PM
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Lack of communication: internet
My girlfriend kind of spends time talking wit other people on the internet. It's perfectly fine, but when she calls me most of the time she is talking with someone else on aim or myspace (lame) or something else which gets annoying. This has gone on for a few months now and I barely call her back because she does this. It kind of gets pretty upsetting sometimes.
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Ultra Member
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Aug 5, 2007, 07:00 PM
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I think it's annoying too. All the Facebook, myspace, aim,msn... phone is the best way.
U need to talk to her about this... that's not respectful that she does this.
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Ultra Member
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Aug 5, 2007, 07:36 PM
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Welcome to the 21st century.
In case you were doubting yourself - YES, it is annoying.
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Junior Member
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Aug 5, 2007, 11:09 PM
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Myspace, aim, msn... blah blah blah! All of them are a the devil to a relationship. Think of it this way... what would you do if every time you went out with your girlfriend to dinner, she just got up and started talking and networking with all of the women and men in the restaurant... would you tolerate that? If she can't make you more of a priority, then you need to stop wasting your time.
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New Member
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Aug 6, 2007, 11:00 AM
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We talked it out
And both of us ended up getting pretty hurt
It didn't get anywhere
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Uber Member
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Aug 6, 2007, 11:10 AM
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Your girlfriend is probably just a "gabby" person by nature. If that isn't satisfactory to you, then just stop calling her. I won't say I blame you ; if I'm in a conversation with someone I feel that I deserve their undivided attention. I wouldn't carry on a relationship with someone who doesn't give me that.
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Junior Member
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Aug 6, 2007, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted by insideasession
we talked it out
and both of us ended up getting pretty hurt
it didnt get anywhere
Did you talk it out or have a fight? There is a difference.
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New Member
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Aug 7, 2007, 07:21 PM
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We had a fight
Then talked it out in the end
She doesn't seem like its wrong haha
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Ultra Member
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Aug 8, 2007, 05:13 AM
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Do you still love her then?
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Uber Member
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Aug 8, 2007, 05:18 AM
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When you're talking to her, that conversation should be the only thing she is thinking about. This is the way that every conversation should be, but especially so if you're in a relationship.
If it's routinely not the onlything she is giving attention to then I don't see it boding well for the future...
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Expert
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Aug 8, 2007, 07:36 AM
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I think its rude. Don't put up with it and express your displeasure. If it continues hang up. If she doesn't understand your feelings then adios.
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New Member
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Aug 8, 2007, 09:59 PM
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Of course I still love her
It didn't happen today so we still have time to work on it
We've work through many problems together forgot the past and keep on going
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