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Jul 27, 2005, 10:57 AM
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I Need An Answer Please!!
I need an answer
When ever me and my b/f are together he sometimes checks out other chicks I do sometimes but when he does it I feel insecure like he wants to be with a hotter chick than w/ me and its probably I'm jealous and I hate it because I check out other chicks to and he isn't like that. I always get mad and ask him dumb questions like is she hotter than me? u want her instead of me don't u? And other dumb questions and he is always like shut up don't be stupid. I want to stop but I don't know how~~~~> please HELP ME STOP!!
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Jul 27, 2005, 01:59 PM
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I think you should break up with this guy. You seem very unsure about him and have a new problem every week. Hopefully when school goes back you'll meet someone new.
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Jul 27, 2005, 02:22 PM
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Any guy that makes you feel jealous and insecure is not worth it.
But, guys will check out other gals - as long as he is with you, it's OK - BUT, if you get that gut feeling he is looking to cheat - move on. No one needs those types of feelings.
QUIT the dumb questions as well - he will only use them against you. AND they show jealous and insecurity, which are major turn offs.
And - if you have these thoughts - they will lcome true - if you feel that way inside - being a woman - there is a good chance they are true.
Find a good guy you will feel safer and more comfortable with - this guy sounds like massive trouble.
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Jul 27, 2005, 02:50 PM
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Again... this all boils down to those two Big words...
RESPECT and TRUST
You don't trust him
It appears he doesn't respect you
= you need to seriously talk with him - and don't accept his a-hole answers.
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Jul 28, 2005, 09:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Wildcat21
Again....this all boils down to those two Big words....
RESPECT and TRUST
You don't trust him
It appears he doesn't respect you
= you need to seriously talk with him - and don't accept his a-hole answers.
Well he does respect me its just I feel bad because when I look at other girls/guys he doesn't get mad or ask questions he says yeah she is hott or no I don't like her but I don't know I know I love him and he loves me I just don't want to loose him and that's probably why I get all jealous and stuff~~~>more advice welcome.
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Ultra Member
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Jul 28, 2005, 10:23 AM
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Well - it doesn't sound that healthy if that's the way he makes you feel.
Again - read ALL I posted. You have to.
IT's sounds like he makes you feel real needy of him and that's not good either.
I highly suggest find other things inportant in life and cut this guy out a little bit - school, work, FRIENDS, WORKOUT, family, hobbies...
Youe s/o is a small part of your life - not your life.
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