[Ash123]

YoitzLisa,

The internet is a good place to check the weather. Not date.
Especially at 14.

Call up your best friend and go have some fun today... PLEASE.
You have a whole life to be miserable with relationships.

But not now... this is fun time! Really.

I promise you will look back in 10 years and laugh!
But right now you think that's impossible and that's part of growing up.
So, hang in there... and try to meet friends in person where they are REAL.

Have a fun day!

[Geoffersonairplane]

I don't want to sound like I am undermining your feelings and ability to understand them. You are old enough to develop feelings for another person. You are a bit young however to be worrying about all this. You should be focusing on your school work and spend time with good friends (as in hang around with the right people).

This might sound boring right now but trust me, this matters a lot and will pay off in Adult life. It won't be long before you are there too and you have so much to learn and experience and so many good and bad experiences ahead of you. Forget Internet dating because you don't know who you are talking to. I'm not saying forget boyfriends altogether but just be young, focus on school and the things that are important in life, at least for now.