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    midas2222 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 20, 2007, 02:01 PM
    I am gay and madly in love with my male straight sorbordinate
    Hello Everyone ! I need your help NOW! I am madly in love and attracted to a straight guy that I supervised on a daily basis. I am in my 30's and Junior is a virgo and in his 20's and I can't stop thinking about him.

    I think of him so many nights making passionate love to him, I don't what to do.
    Can a gay man and straight guy falling in love and have a meaningful relationship.
    He is a virgo and I am a pisces.
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    Jul 20, 2007, 02:03 PM
    Moved to correct board
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    Jul 20, 2007, 05:03 PM
    Is it wise for a gay man to fall in love with a straight guy that he is dying over and you are his supervisor?
    I am so attracted to this slim body virgo straight guy that I am going mad over him.
    What must I do?
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    Jul 20, 2007, 05:16 PM
    Since you are his supervisor, it would be unethical to make any moves in his direction. You could be fired for it.

    What must you do? Find someone else.
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    Jul 20, 2007, 05:20 PM
    As the above said, this kind of behaviour is unexceptable because you are a superviser. Also you know this person is straight, so right away I know this will not work. This is a crush your going through and you must let it pass and stop dwelling on this because the worse things will get believe me. If you do not stop thinking about this your going to end up hurting a lot more.

    Joe
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    Jul 20, 2007, 05:36 PM
    I agree with both posts above. There's an old saying that goes a little something like "you're not suposed to dip your pen in the company ink". More importantly, he is straight. A straight man wants a straight woman. I don't want to hurt your feelings or anything but you deffinetly have to stop thinking about this guy, because you're only setting yourself up for a big huge fall.
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    Jul 20, 2007, 06:30 PM
    Ty
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    Jul 20, 2007, 07:04 PM
    You are in lust, not love. He is your subordinate, you risk losing your job.

    So what if he is Virgo? What does that have to do with the price of tea in china?
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    Jul 21, 2007, 10:07 AM
    The fact he is a subordinate is a red flag, and you must recognise there are boundaries that must not be crossed. Even though he maybe friendly I doubt if a straight guy is seriously going to understand love or a relationship with a gay man so, be realistic and keep it professional.
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