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jordyx2 · Jul 19, 2007, 09:32 AM

A guy that I like has a girlfriend and I think he likes me. I had a swim meet today and wherever I went he followed shortly after. We talked a lot and played games and stuff with other team members. I asked if he was still going out with his girlfriend and he said I don't know in a rude "psh" way (not rude to me thoughh) and he kind of hung around me the whole time and sort of asked me to go fishing tomorrow.

Lotz_of_Questions · Jul 19, 2007, 10:50 AM

He might like you, but he does have a girlfriend. I suggest you not go out with him until you are sure he is single. It can save you unneeded problems with his girl. If you talk to him again, let him know that you don't want to get in his business, but he has a girl, and should not be talking to you. (How would you feel if your boyfriend were talking to another girl?)
Let him respect you that way. And if he does have problems with his girl, it's going to end between them, then you can go on a date with him.
Hope this helps. :)

victoria_mitchell · Jul 19, 2007, 01:06 PM

You should never get involved with someone that has a girlfriend it can and will cause problems for multiple parties. But, IF and WHEN he breaks up with his girlfriend (as long as she is not a friend of yours) then I would say do you like him? And if the answer is yes THEN and only THEN maybe you guys will get involved..

Balloons33 · Jul 19, 2007, 01:11 PM

Some guys are flirts and will even act like they don't like their girlfriend to get closer to another girl... especially if he is a cheater.
He is probably interested in you, but keep your guard up and be mindful of the fact that he is involved with someone else. If you were his girlfriend and you found out he was talking to another girl the way he talks to you... would it make you mad? If so, then I would advise to keep your distance.

METERRE · Jul 19, 2007, 01:18 PM

Taking advantage of this post I just felt I had to say it to someone. I like a guy at work but he's married. Last year he seemed like he liked me because evertime it was time to go to break or leave, he'd be at the exit and he'd look at me when I would pass by. This year he doesn't do that but every time we do pass by each other I see that he kind of looks away or is nervous. I still like him and don't know what to do. I guess just forget about him but haven't been able. And I don't know if he does or doesn't like me now. But oh well, I think I'll still be hurting for a while.

METERRE · Jul 19, 2007, 10:12 PM

No I'm not considering going out with someone who I know it's married. I just needed to say it, well write it, for it to be known by someone. Definitely I am planning to forget the guy, just that it's hard so I'm having a little heartbreak. But of course no, I do not plan to do anything other than forget him and move on. That's what I meant. I wasn't really asking for advice on that subject.
Thanks for listening to one more of the many similar stories you've probably heard.

victoria_mitchell · Jul 20, 2007, 11:31 AM

Originally Posted by METERRE

No i'm not considering going out with someone who i know it's married. I just needed to say it, well write it, for it to be known by someone. Definitely i am planning to forget the guy, just that it's hard so i'm having a little heartbreak. But of course no, i do not plan to do anything other than forget him and move on. That's what i meant. I wasn't really asking for advice on that subject.
Thanks for listening to one more of the many similar stories you've probably heard.

I'm sorry if I came off rude or blunt I should not have assumed that is what you meant. I assure you that I was only trying to make sure you didn't walk into a mistake that so many girls have.
Greatest Respect to you.