[MARIA232]

Me And My Boyfriend Have Been Dating For 2 1/2 Years Now... just The Other Day We Got In This Huge Fight. It All Started When I Told Him That I Was Going To Go Out With My Girlfriends He Was Fine On The Day I Told Him But The Nexxt Day He Was Very Upset And Mad... we Have Promised Each other Not To Go Out With One Another... but That Was When We First Started Dating... and Have Gone Out Without Each other A Few Times... he Thinks That It Is My Fault Because I Made A Promise And I Broke It... but So Did He... he Packed Upa Few Clothes And Left And Now I Am Very Upet And Confused!! I Used Make Him Not Leave Because He Was Trying Not To Let Me Say 'okay I Won't Go Out Then' And Then He Would Get His Way Again... but That Day I Didn't I Stood My Ground And I Didn't Stop Him From Leaving... I Want To Go Out With My Friends Once In A While... I Hardly Even Do Go Out With Them Because I Am Always Scared That He Is Going To Get Mad And I Don't Like Fighting About So I Never Say Yes When My Friends Ask Me To Go Out... now I Can Call Him And Try And Work Things Out, But Also... I Don't Know How To Say It... I Want To Be Able To Trust Me And Let Me Go Out With My Girlfriends... tonight They Have Asked Me To Go Out.. And That's Why This Whole Thing Started... so Should I Phone Him And Work Things Out And Not Go Out With My Friends... or Jus Leave It For One More Day And Go Out

[launikalinda]

First of all, you did absolutely Nothing wrong! You have the right to go out once in a while! If there isn't no ring on your finger then you shouldn't be on lock down! I don't know him or nothing but 4rm what your saying, he sounds kind of insecure or controlling. If you really want him back in your life you should tell him that you have a right to go out and have some time for yourself once in a while and that there is nothing for him to worry about but yea you should still go out with your friends and maybe you should just wait for him to come back to you if he really thinks the relationship is worth trying for! Good luck and don't change your ways just to make someone else happy! Its your lyfe and you only get to live it once!