[catyrose]

Hello,
I'm a Newbie to the Board.
I would like some Input on inappropicate behavior between father and Daughter.
I have a 26 year old Step-Daughter that is real close to her Dad.
She became a Massage therapist and My husband said he would pay her for a complete Rub.
This bothered me because we don't even have sex.
We've been married nine years and he's been on anti-depressents for 5 years.
He said he has no Sex drive.
His daughter is Beautiful.
He also Walked out inhis Underwear which he has never done since we've been married.
His daughter and My daughter were present.
I told him what are you doing?
He said he was covered up enough.
He dosen't act like that when his Brothers or Sisters some to visit.
I do feel insecure and wonder What he's thinking.
His daughter didn't seem to mind that he was walking around in his underwear.
She said her step-Dad use to do it and it kind of bothered her but it dosen't bother her with he Dad.
Thanks
catyrose

[ScottGem]

I'm confused. HIS daughter is a licensed massage therapist and he hired her to give him a complete massage? So what does this have to do with sex?

While she was there, he walked around in his underwear (boxers or briefs?) while your daughter was present.

While it may not have been totally appropriate especially wearing briefs, I don't see it being horrible.

As for having his daughter give him a massage I don't see anything wrong with that and don't know what his sex drive has to do with anything about that.

[UnwantedHero]

Sounds like maybe he's just really comphtable with this situation.I know some people who would open the door completely naked.And yea agree with skottgem what's it go to do with his sexual activity?

[zozobean]

It may be nothing, but I can understand why you would be concerned.I have seen situations like that before. And I know of quite a few men that as they get older they ,I guess want to feel young again and start looking at younger women and as sick as it may be sometimes even there own daughters. I think you should confront your husband. Look him right in the eyes and see if you can tell if he is lying to you. If something is going on, he should be held mostly responsible. It could be possible that she was sexually abused growing up and is now just very confused. I know of a girl who was 21 when she met her father and her whole life she was molested by different men , well her own father came on to her and she let him because she just wanted him to love her,she spent her whole life trying to find him. Anyway I'm just saying try to find out the whole story. Hopefully there is nothing to find out anyway.

[ScottGem]

It may be nothing, but I can understand why you would be concerned..

OH please! I think this is being so blown out of proportion. Unbless there are other indications here, the circumstances put forth in the OP are just not enough to raise a fuss over.