Originally Posted by
confused351
Ouch is right and I agree- I hope it can be saved too. It seems he fell in love with me when I was fun- i don't seem to be that fun person anymore. Seems I am actually worried about bills and stuff. I am sure I have grown up a bit since we met, but I am the same person that he married not that long ago. So I guess we shall see. At this point I want to get this counseling started to see where we stand as this living in limbo is very odd.
Well, as an adult, yeah... we worry about bills, and buying groceries, and putting gas in the car. It's called being a responcible adult. What do you guys do together? Has your life become routine? Go to work, come home, make/eat dinner, watch some TV, play on computer, shower, bed - rinse, wash, repeat?. If that's the case, then I can see how he would get bored and how you probably would too. But adults don't have as much free time or energy as we did when we were younger. How about making an effort to try spicing it up? Do you two have any common interests? Video games? Board games? Card games? Play with each other! Go on a date. Go have some fun. Everyone could use a little fun now and then. He probably just misses the stuff you two used to do together.