Originally Posted by
whit_1981
me and my ex were together for 9 years we split up for 3 years and in between we now have a son thats one year old that he has never ment and it seems as if he still loves me but trys to not show it but is mean when we talk and u can tell in his voice something is up he does have a new girlfreind but he is very mean to her and tells everyone he dont love her what can i do to clear the air and so that him and i can talk
I think that any man that disrespects a women by being mean to her isn't worth it. Especially talking about her behind her back. Also he hasn't even met his son what kind of father is that. Forget him I know 9 yrs is a lot but it's better in the end. He is probably not happy w/ himself and his life. Let him work it out on his own and if it's meant to be it will happen.