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    Jul 2, 2007, 06:49 AM
    Engaged but not sure if I'm in love
    I'm 23 and been with my partner for a year, he's younger than me and I have three children from a previous relationship, the problem is before I got with my current partner I was deeply in love with a friend for two years and when I finally gave up and got with my new partner I then found out that this fella was now in love with me! I teld him I was over it and wanted to get on with my new life now and was happy to say I was falling in love with my new fella. Now ayear on this old flame has told me despite everything he still loves me, I don't know what to do as I don't know how I feel, I'm meant to be planning my wedding and we are talking about buying our house and having a baby in a year or two, but all I can think of is this other fella and if I have made a big mistake. Please help
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    Jul 2, 2007, 01:13 PM
    Don't get married like this. Not even your fiancé would want to marry you like this.
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    Jul 3, 2007, 01:49 PM
    WAIT!! It is much easier to wait and figure things out than to go through with a marriage and then realize it was wrong. Call off the engagement and give yourself some time to think things through. It may not work out with the ex but you need to be sure that all of these old feelings are gone before marrying another. Your fiancé deserves to know that he is the only one before you marry him and you deserve to know you are completely sure.
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