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nicespringgirl · Jun 30, 2007, 06:13 PM

Dear everyone,

What are the ways/tips of flirting with guys? I really have no idea how to flirt with any guy.

I am smiling all the time and being polite, gentle , I do joke with them and make them laugh a lot. It seems like those aren't enough.So please show me how to flirt with guys in real life.

Thank you in advance.:o

jeremy4719 · Jun 30, 2007, 06:26 PM

Well to put it simple... If you are flirting (interested) in a guy (me being one)... I would suggest putting your hand on his back, arm, butt... Those are indicators for you being interested... Also throw in the I'm into your every word, mention getting to know them better, etc... And if all else fails, show some skin and give off some sexual vibes...

weatly156 · Jun 30, 2007, 06:35 PM

You don't want to be too subtle, because then they might not get the picture, although, if you are too straight forward, then it may seem like you are coming on too strong. If you're trying to get someone's attention, try not to stare, but make plenty of eye contact while still keeping it under control.
- Lean into conversation as you speak, it makes you seem more interested
- Play with your hair and jewelry
- Make gentle physical contact such as a touch on the arm or shoulder
- Sit straight up, don't act drowsy or uninterested
- Give relaxing smiles and speak in a warm, inviting voice
- BE YOURSELF. No one wants a faker, if the real you doesn't cut it, then he's not worth it

Hope I helped! =)

nicespringgirl · Jun 30, 2007, 06:50 PM

Originally Posted by weatly156

You don't want to be too subtle, because then they might not get the picture, although, if you are too straight forward, then it may seem like you are coming on too strong. If you're trying to get someones attention, try not to stare, but make plenty of eye contact while still keeping it under control.
- Lean into conversation as you speak, it makes you seem more interested
- Play with your hair and jewelry
- Make gentle physical contact such as a touch on the arm or shoulder
- Sit straight up, don't act drowsy or uninterested
- Give relaxing smiles and speak in a warm, inviting voice
- BE YOURSELF. No one wants a faker, if the real you doesn't cut it, then he's not worth it

Hope I helped! =)

Sounds reasonable, and practical. Thank you for your kind advice. I am a serious girl so it's hard to pick on those, but I really think it's very helpful.

Dennis777 · Jun 30, 2007, 08:14 PM

Hello.

I know the first thing I notice is a Ladies sweet smile and the way she feels about herself. If she likes who she is and shows it by the way she dresses and acts then she is like a magnet to Men. If the guys your around don't pick up on that then you need to find some different guys to hang around, they must be into their cars and toys more then a sweet lady like you.

Good Luck
Dennis777

Kwanmuang · Jun 30, 2007, 08:30 PM

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incognito · Jun 30, 2007, 09:00 PM

There are different degrees of flirting.
From flirting humorously with just a friend to serious flirting with a romantic interest.
I'm sure you're talking about not-just-friends-flirting. Keep smiling and making the guys laugh, that's always a great way to flirt. Also make sure to laugh at their dumb jokes as well.
And I second the motion about being yourself. If you are fake, it will show and turn most off.

nicespringgirl · Jul 1, 2007, 08:52 AM

Originally Posted by incognito

There are different degrees of flirting.
From flirting humorously with just a friend to serious flirting with a romantic interest.
I'm sure you're talking about not-just-friends-flirting. Keep smiling and making the guys laugh, that's always a great way to flirt. Also make sure to laugh at their dumb jokes as well.
And I second the motion about being yourself. If you are fake, it will show and turn most off.

Thank you Incognito! You are always helpful.:)I will remember to keep similing and make the guys laugh.I hardly fake in real life, that is problly the problem, I am very frankly, and if the jokes they made weren't funny, I wouldn't laugh at all. I usually dress very conservative, covering everything. Once in a while, I dress sexy and less covered... I wanted to see what are those guys in my class reacting... I tell you what,lol, this one guy who is older than me, told me "you make me nervous." What's that mean? I looked at him, and he had no facial expression on his face and I wasn't sure he was asking me to put more clothes on or what not, he likes it or dislikes it... gosh, I try to read their facial expressions but most of the guys I talk to usually have no facial expression. It's tough... lol.

P.S. when I mean dressing sexy(please look at my pic), it's the dress like that.lol, that might not be sexy at all, well, I tend to dress very conservative all the time.