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I had sex with my best friend was that good or bad?
I had sex with my best friend, is that going to mess up our relationship?
He's been my best friend for about 5yrs. The sex was great but what I want to know is after sex is our relationship going to be intimate from now on? Please help me. I don't want to lose a good friend because we got too "touchie feelie". :confused: |
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For sure your relationship will never be the same again because you have added another dimension to it... sex. Unfortunately it is inevitable. Conversations you will have won't be on the same level and you will both be wondering if a repeat performance will be as good as next time.
There is only one way you can correct the situation and that is move on for a while without much contact and see what happens for both of you. Maybe this change happened for the good and you both will have the love of your lives happening right now with great sex and great friendship. I wish you luck dolly08 sorting it all out from here on in. |
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Well it depends, are you wanting to take your friendship on to a romantic level, or was it just casual sex. I married my best friend, so in some cases its good. But if you or he doesn't want a relationship, than it can change things seriously. Esp, if one is a little more emotionally attached than the other. Sex almost always complicates things.
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Sex IS a part of your relationship now. Accept it. But if your relationship is BASED on sex then the relationship probably wasn't meant to be. An intellegent man will have sex probably only once a month or longer, because sex isn't the thing that should be furthering the relationship; It should be love that furthers the relationship. |
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