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danifilth1989 · Jun 20, 2005, 11:32 AM

This is kind of weird.

I've known him for about two years now. He's one of only two people I could call my friends.

I realised, however, that the way I felt about him was different to the way I felt about my other friend. I just wanted to touch him, hug him, smell him (? ) etc.

I realised that I felt something towards him when I bought a wristband off him. I couldn't stop sniffing it, because it smelt of him! That's not something you usually do with an item of your friends' clothing. When I play fight with him, it's not as a friend. I feel like I'm almost flirting with him.

I'm so ing confused about my feelings. I think I'm in love with him, but how can I be in love with him and be his friend as well? Please help me!

Thanks.

Wildcat21 · Jun 20, 2005, 02:36 PM

Happens all the time.

Here is a website I agree a lot with: www.lovetactics.com -

the whole basis of a REAL LOVING long term relationship is base on Friendship FIRST...

Friend + Respect = Passion... love.

That site has a lot of free articles that WILL help you.

Are you female or is this a male/male relationship?

danifilth1989 · Jun 21, 2005, 05:11 AM

Thanks. To answer your question, we're both male. I'm 16 and he's 15. I'll have a look through that site. The thing is, like I said I only have two friends, and I want to keep it that way. I don't actually want a relationship with him.

fredg · Jun 21, 2005, 05:51 AM

Hi,
If you think you are in love with your best friend, and he doesn't feel the same way, leave him alone.
You need to find another best friend.
If you continue feeling this way, and continue seeing him, it will only prolong the agony.
Best wishes,
fredg

Wildcat21 · Jun 21, 2005, 08:32 AM

Hey - no problem. It's how you feel. I am straight, but my advice is your young and you need to find out what makes you happy. You also need to find out your orientation - what type of people you are attracted to.

If he is straight then you might lose a friend - remember that. It may be lust and it will go away - but, it might take 6 months.

Miss Dance · Jun 22, 2005, 06:26 PM

A guy and a girl friend will fall in love a date, maybe forever, maybe not very long at all but it happens. Don't be afraid or confused. Listen to your heart.

mike145k · Jun 29, 2005, 02:51 PM

Listen to me boy you need help,the feelings you are having are plain old fashion wrong give up that way of thinking and check yourself into a help program.and when you are all better maybe you will get married to a woman and, have a family live happily after. That is the way its suppose to be