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    jojo114 Posts: 67, Reputation: 3
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    Jun 23, 2007, 11:12 AM
    Boyfreind's best friend tells me something should I believe it
    When your boyfreinds best friend tells you your boyfreind doesn't give a f*** about you anymore what is that suppose to mean. Should I believe it. I know one thing for sure his friend doesn't have a crush on me or anything like that so what exacly does it mean.its his best friend what he saying. Should I break up with him... help me no idea what I'm going to do.
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    Jun 23, 2007, 02:04 PM
    Take his words with a grain of salt, and go with your own judgements. Is their any truth in his words? Only you can make that call. You know your boyfriend better than I would. Do you have proof that what he says is true? Or is he trying to shake your faith in your boyfriend? Or is he giving you a warning to be careful? I'm sorry, but only you are in the position to answer these questions.
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    Jun 23, 2007, 02:09 PM
    Maybe this guy wants you to break up with your boyfriend for his own personal reasons. Perhaps he feels your boyfriend spends too much time with you and not him, his best friend. Maybe he does know something that your boyfriend is doing behind your back and wants to save you from finding out and being hurt. I don't know. But those are possibilities.

    Like Tal said, only you are able to find those things out for yourself. Watch what you say and do, watch what your boyfriend says and does. Look and see if there is any clues to pick up on his behavior. Ask your boyfriend directly. Ask him where he sees your relationship in 6 months, in a year. Ask him what his plans are concerning the two of you. If he cannot answer or answers real vaguely, you have a clue. If he gets all upset about it and acts real indignant, there is another clue.

    Make a back up plan for yourself. It could not hurt.
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    Jun 23, 2007, 02:46 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jojo114
    when ur boyfreinds best freind tells you your boyfreind doesnt give a about you anymore what is that suppose to mean.
    That means that he is not your boyfriend's best friend or a friend at all, so why believe a thing he would say.

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