[J_9]

Sometimes it takes harsh words for us to see the truth. You know that already as you have had your fair share of harsh words here. LOL

With that said, you had a momentary lapse in judgment, you MUST make sure it does not happen again. You know you are lucky you are still able to be here with the way he acts.

I LOVED that site that was given above. Also, have you gotten out your local yellow pages yet?

[Rasluk]

Sometimes it takes harsh words for us to see the truth. You know that already as you have had your fair share of harsh words here. LOL

With that said, you had a momentary lapse in judgment, you MUST make sure it does not happen again. You know you are lucky you are still able to be here with the way he acts.

I LOVED that site that was given above. Also, have you gotten out your local yellow pages yet?

J_9 is right sometimes it takes harsh words - these are mine without the harsh. I have never responded to any internet post in my life I have never registered with any type of forum in my life. I was searching for something totally different not even on the ASK ME HELP DESK when I came across your post. I have no idea why but I decided to respond to your plea for help it took me 5 minutes to register - 2 min to search web for help with insurance for kids in MO. - 2 min to type and send a quick answer (I type slow ). You were on the computer several times over a 6 hour period. (Sometimes its good to talk to other people to get fresh ideas). After reading what people wrote to you - you've got them - everyone that responded to you gave you good ideas on what you could do. The key word is could. Its time to stop writing about what your worried about and start writing about what you are doing to correct the situation you've gotten yourself into. Im sure everyone here will continue to give you ideas to keep you going in the right direction. And to provide you with encouragement. But if you just talk about how bad it is it will never get better and it does get better if you try. NEVER GIVE UP

[lennyd]

Leave the bastard.

If you are really worried about the children growing up without a male figure in their life, I'm SURE (from the sounds of it) nearly ANY other man would be able to fill this loser's shoes.