[lady_fang66]

I went through almost the something. Only difference was that we weren't married. We lived together for about a year. Arguments night after night. He would take me to stay at my mothers for a few nights till I calmed down enough and then the same thing happened again. What we did to resolve this was, we sat down in a calm matter, and let it all out. What changes we wanted to see in each other, what we could change in ourselves, and basically how we could improve our lives personally and together as a couple. And so far a year later we are still going strong. We still have our arguments, but they are not nearly as bad. And if that doesn't work... ask yourself, "Is she really worth all this drama? Do I still feel 'In Love' with her? and Would I be happier alone or with someone else?" Hope this helps. It's hard, I know, but if you both work at it, I'm sure everything will turn out OK.;)