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    KatieFaye1 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 30, 2010, 07:28 PM
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    My boyfriend and I have been together 5 years. He loves to party and I'm more of a homebody. We have a one yearold son when I was pregante he went out drinking and cheated on me. I stayed because of the baby but now he wants to go out to bars and drink and stay out all night. Its not all the time only like twice a month but I have a really hard time with it. I hate it!! I want to talk to him about it but it always is a fight. Any thoughts?
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    Aug 30, 2010, 07:32 PM

    Is there an unbiased person you both would trust and can go to, perhaps a priest or counselor?

    Who financially supports your little family?
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    Aug 30, 2010, 09:34 PM
    You want to discuss this but it always ends up in an argument? How does a discussion always end up in an argument... and you don't have to stay because of the baby if you are unhappy... is that the only reason you stayed?
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    Aug 30, 2010, 10:42 PM

    If he cheated on you when you were pregnant, especially after 4 years. Hes no man.

    If he doesn't wish to listen, and own up to his responsibility to you and your child, then focus on a plan to leave.

    But yes, talk with a counselor or lawyer first.

    His party is going to come to an end sooner than he thinks.

    You don't need him to survive. Just the opposite.
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    Aug 31, 2010, 07:27 AM

    While once a month is not much, the fact you can't talk without arguing is a red flag to a lack of communications.

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