[scottefc91]

Im going out with my girfriend for 3 months and she is funny good looking and basically everything about her is amazing
The only problem is that I am very insecure about her... For example if she is on her phone I keep thinking she is texting other guys and if she out I am wondering where she is and what she is doing.. I know I shouldn't be thinking this but I can't help it
We are long distance but I am moving in a flat with her soon and she is going on holiday next week and il be even worse
I don't know how I can change... Thanks people

[talaniman]

Why do you think like that my friend? Is this your first relationship, or have you had bad experience with others? Or are you just young and in love for the very first time? Are you insecure in other areas of your life?

I know lots of questions but the more info and background you can provide the better we can give you suggestions to help.

[Alexandra12]

Try talking to her honesty always counts and if your still thinking about it try hanging out with friends more time fun less time worring

[Bc_Fc15]

Right here's my view I'm going to be stright with you I'm exsacly the same my partner told me the other day she sits next to this guy every day and there really good mates they laugh together all the time I'm like okay. The one thing it proves is you care, tell her about it all she wants is to know you care. You don't need change if she loves you she will understand and will try to help but if she dosen't know what's hurting you how can she help you or comfert you about it that's what you want you want to know she loves you and that she wants you just tell her about it that's what I did and she was like (im really sorry, I did'nt know, I'm really sorry please forgive me) and stuff like that just speak to her about it. Good luck I know it will be fine. I get paranoid at anything if she walks away from me to speak to a guy I'm like oh no its normal don't worry you don't need to change she just doesn't know. Tell her! She will understand. Best of luck

[kez83]

Be open :) communication is a key player, and trust as well. You may feel embarresed or silly by sharing your feelings but don't worry, you may feel lots better once you finally get it off your chest... Goodluck and be strong...