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Sep 18, 2011, 04:48 PM
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No sex after marriage
When do marred people stop having sex and if it stops how do you get it stared again
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Sep 18, 2011, 06:07 PM
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It is not a guarantee that newly weds stop having sex. Why do you think it is?
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Sep 18, 2011, 06:31 PM
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What? And who are you listening to?
With all relationships you will have a cooling point where the none stop sex turns into something more than just physical
You get trust security all these things that are a lot harder to get than just sex.
Be it newly weds or 3 month girlfriend and boyfriend when that happens both couples should sit down and talk about how it makes the other feel, 9 times out of 10 the other person will always want more sex
That's where the magic compromise and work on both sides goes into a successful relationship
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Sep 18, 2011, 06:53 PM
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I am considered a Senior, OK it may slow from every day, to a few times a week or perhaps a couple times a week. But who says it ever stops.
There may be illness or some reason to stop for a while.
There is a fallicy that sometimes it slows at 7 years, but then that again is not always any truth.
The issue is for the individual couple. If you continue to make it fun, add spark, But what is your restrictions, what limits, only one position and only in the bedroom ?
Or is it body paints and costumes and the closet or backyard swimming pool is first choices of places
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Sep 18, 2011, 08:45 PM
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You have to first figure out why it stopped, by talking to your spouse, and then once the reasons are revealed, you figure out how best to deal with it.
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Sep 18, 2011, 09:06 PM
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to talaniman again.
1. Identifying the problem.
2. Accepting the problem.
3. Willingness to change the problem.
With any issue in a relationship you must first identify it. Then accept it as a couple, then be willing to fix it. This must be mutual as a lop-sided effort tends to lead to negative things.
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