[kieranwong]

Hi everyone.. first of all I'd like to say a heartfelt thak you to everyone who helped me get over my breakup in Jan :) I basically kept myself busy and the hurt just went away gradually..

Now I'm writing because a few days ago, a friend of mine told me that her friend was asking a lot of questions about me. According to my friend, she'd seen my artwork and heard that I play guitar and was "swooning all over" and was basically dying to know me. So she introduced me to that friend on MSN, and we began talking.

At first she did seem really enthusisastic, asking a lot of questions. But as the conversation went on, her replies became delayed. I could almost sense that she was disappointed or something. Until finally she just went offline without saying bye.

A couple days later I IM-ed her in an attempt to get another conversation going. We talked a while before she said she was going to watch a show she downloaded, so her replies would take a while. To that, I just said "it's okay, I don't wanna interrupt, talk to you another time"

It seems to me that she went from majorly interested to brushing me off in just two conversations. The thing is, she got me interested in her! But she's confusing me at the moment.. what do you think? Thanks for reading :)

[sypher373]

Why not ask to meet her? Maybe your friend can hook up a mutual outing where you can meet in person? It seems hard to believe that she would know you well enough through two conversations online to make a decision like that...

Just a suggestion

[SAB123]

Find someone who is willing to get to know you.

[emo-angel]

Its harder on msn because you don't really know someone until you have met them because you can't judge their reactions and also I add my friends all the time on msn and they hardly ever talk to me even though they wanted my address, I think its best if you talk to her more and hint lots towards getting to know her

[talaniman]

File it away for a while, and keep living your life. You already know about moving to fast, and since there's no hurry, why bug her on what she has presented. Your more curious than she is. Back way off her for a month or two and see where life takes you.

[kieranwong]

Appreciate the help people! I've decided to just ignore her and leave it at that :p
.. BTW this place is truly amazing. I feel obliged to give back what I've taken from this site :)