Moved out
Hi,
I do fully agree with Fr Chuck.
You need a lawyer, have Separation Papers drawn up, then file for divorce.
Your husband says all he has will be yours if he passes away... do you believe that?
I am sorry to read this, because 30 yrs is a long time. My wife and I have 28 yrs now, and I have no intentions of ever leaving her, or she, me.
I do sincerely hope that you will get a lawyer. Ask around where you live, and get one that has experience with divorce. Just because your husband tells you everything will be yours, doesn't mean it's going to happen. It does sound like he will tell you anything, just to get back into your house, and get you into bed.
Please "wake up"; all you smell are not roses. I do wish you the best, and please get a lawyer before it's too late. In that way, you will be entitled to at least half of everything he owns. If you don't get a lawyer, you might not even have the house you are living in!
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