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cazzy1 · Jun 22, 2005, 01:46 PM

Hiya everybody
Rite well lately my boyfriend has been so off with me its unbeliveable. I'm 15 he is 16 I had sex with him about 1 month and 2 weeks ago when we first got together then about 1 hour I found out my best mate sleped around his house with my boyfriend best mate. I felt really used and unsure on what to do.
Then about 2 weeks after that we went to london together and he told me I was clingy itwasnt the first time he told me it but the last time I just went from one exream to the other I ignored him.
Everything had been going OK till abou one week age, he started drinking and when I phoned him he just let things slip like the reason I turn my phone off is cause I don't like people phoning me and he told me about a girl coming onto him, most of his mates are mine so I thought well I will phone skinner so I did and he told me my boyfriend had been texin another girl who goes in the snooker center ( my boyfriend is always in there) and I started to worry and started to cry, if any of you knew me I have been hurt so much in the past by a boyfriend and that's why I worry so anyway I sleeped round my boyfriend and we was talking about loads and he said "a girl has been texin me but i told he to f**k off i have a girlfriend" so I thought I will just phone skinner to find out if this was the same girl but my boyfriend said he was going to get some socks well he did but they were in the concervatry and I was out side he heard me on the phone he got really mardy and upset and would not talk to me for about 30mins or more it was horrible I don't know if I want to stay with him or not what shoul I do. I need help please

lickemlolly · Jun 22, 2005, 05:14 PM

First off you are way too young to be invovled in such a dramatic rship... you should be out enjoying life instead of home pining away over some guy that obviously does not care so much about you... he told the girl to f**k off... yeah right!! so how did she get his # in the first place to even start textin him if he has a girl?? drop the loser and stop trying so hard to be in such serious rships... youre young and have plenty of time to date guys that will actually treat you like you mean something...

Lovinmybabyboy · Jun 22, 2005, 05:20 PM

I think you should talk to him. Sit him down and talk to him about it. If he says he's been sleeping around on you then he wont have a reason to be mad at you anymore. Tell him his roomate said that so you were worried. Tell him you love him and dont want to lose him and thats the only reason you were asking. If he gets mad then maybe it would be safe to let him cool down or just seperate for a while.trust me!

lickemlolly · Jun 22, 2005, 05:25 PM

OK first off that is the one thing that you don't want to do is bring his friends name into it because then your boyfriend is only going to go back to your friend angry for spilling confidential info... so I'm sorry but I don't agree with that advice... and second if your boyfriend is sleeping around on you then he is sleeping around on you... even if you ask he's still human and still has the free will to lie and say no... so what good will that do... what you need to do is stop devoting so much time to this... remember like wildcat says he is part of your life NOT your life!!

mike145k · Jun 29, 2005, 03:24 PM

Just do what you think is right for you if you have to be unhappy with any situation then get out of it and find a place that will make you happy