[chick23]

He hasn't contacted me all day today so should I just leave it and wait for him to contact me

[talaniman]

At least let him watch the NBA games and the Olympics. Its Sunday after all.

What do girls do on Sunday, while the guys watch sports?

[chick23]

At least let him watch the NBA games and the Olympics. Its Sunday after all.

What do girls do on Sunday, while the guys watch sports?

Well before all this happened we spent every Sunday together! So I should just leave him and wait for him to text?

[chick23]

I text him eventually just asking him how he was and how his day was and no reply!! I feel like a fool now

[talaniman]

Aw, that's so unnecessary to feel that way. Geez to all young people walk around waiting for a return text? On Sunday? Sports Sunday?

Don't feel foolish, just do something beside worry about him.

[chick23]

Aw, thats so uneccesary to feel that way. Geez to all young people walk around waiting for a return text? On Sunday? Sports Sunday?

Don't feel foolish, just do something beside worry about him.

You but he always texts me back!could I just ring him to put my mind at ease


Rang him he out drinking all day he was fairly drunk!

[talaniman]

See, all those emotions, and he was just out being a guy. Sometimes you have to give a guy space, and not be so insecure.

[chick23]

See, all those emotions, and he was just out being a guy. Sometimes you have to give a guy space, and not be so insecure.

You I guess! A friend told me last night that he was out last weekend and was looking very chatty with this girl! She said that they looked very close but nothing happened with them! Should I be insecure about that??

[talaniman]

No!

[chick23]

No!

OK thanks. I just can't seem to relax I'm just afraid of getting hurt again!

[kctiger]

ok thanks. i just can't seem to relax im just afraid of getting hurt again!

What else do you do besides sit and worry about him? I know you must have a life, right? Make yourself busy and active, as he does, and stop worrying about things.

[chick23]

What else do you do besides sit and worry about him? I know you must have a life, right? Make yourself busy and active, as he does, and stop worrying about things.

Yes I know I should be doing that but recently I got put on part time at work so I have nothing to do all week only think! All my friends work all day too and I don't have a car

[kctiger]

Volunteer... read... pick up a new hobby... something surely can be utilized to help your idle mind. All this worrying sucks (been there before) and it can drive you insane if you're not careful.

[talaniman]

KC is right, you have to have things to do that you enjoy, so you don't just sit and think of him, and what he is doing. We tend to think the worst when we have nothing else to do. To have a healthy relationship, you have to be able to have fun on your own, and not depend on someone else to entertain you, and make you happy all the time, or when you get bored.

[chick23]

OK earlier this evening my sister and my cousin pulled me aside, they had both heard that he was chatting up a thirty year old just divorced trying to get her number at a house party last week! Of course he denied it! I asked him why he doesn't text or want to talk anymore and he said that's what all the fighting did! I said that if he keeps acting like that with me that we will never get back to normal! He started getting all short in his messages and made up an excuse that he had to go play soccer! But a few minutes before that he said he was taking a shower! When I asked why he would take a shower before going playing soccer and he said oh to freshen up! I ended it hoping it was a good move

Please let me know what you think

[talaniman]

I think if you have made your decision, then stick to it, but its too soon to advise you on anything given the rest of your thread. This is clear out of the blue.

How do you know if what he is accused of is true or not?

[chick23]

I think if you have made your decision, then stick to it, but its too soon to advise you on anything given the rest of your thread. This is clear out of the blue.

How do you know if what he is accused of is true or not?

Its not even the fact on wheather if its true or not! He has been accused of being with other people behind my back before! And I gave him the benefit of the doubt but I am hearing too many things about him now! Even if I didn't finish with him I would still be very insecure and paranoid the whole time

[talaniman]

Then stick to your guns, no regrets.

[vanheart]

Im confused, now.

How about talking again. Sounds like everyone's confused.

What's this break about?

Oh, yeah. Got it.

[chick23]

Im confused, now.

How bout talking again. Sounds like everyone's confused.

Whats this break about?

Oh, yeah. Got it.

What are you confused about??