[mudweiser]

She said yes. You also said she's been busy. I doubt she's blowing you off.

All you have to do now is wait. While you wait do other things than wait on her- no use on wasting your time worrying.

Sarah

[Empty Cans]

Who answers being asked out "that made me giggle"? Sounds like a weird situation to me...

[beyourownpet]

It doesn't matter, anyay. It seems she is blatantly ignoring me. Yes she used the term 'giggle' can't have been that funny, surely?

[reckless]

Chill out. Wait until she contacts you. If she doesn't contact you the night before the date, then you can call her.

[beyourownpet]

There is no date. She said yes but doesn't know when. She's blatantly ignoring me now and it has been days. I'm sorry but I don't see any positive to that. I'm chilled. Just a little upset that she said yes and actually meant no.

[kctiger]

The positive is that at least now you know.

[beyourownpet]

Well it really doesn't matter now. I snet a text saying thank you for the silent treatment and thank you for being honest. All you had to say was no. Guess that is the end of that.

[overayear]

I don't think you should have sent the text, it made you look needy.

[beyourownpet]

It did. You are right and now I've messed up that chance. It's probably for the best that I just leave it alone, now. She said she isn't ready to start again, yet and I have to respect her wishes and actually move on.

[beyourownpet]

Your posts were merged to save the confusion and keep the whole story in one place.


It's has been two months since my ex dumped me by letter. It's not like I have to see her everyday. She lives in another city. We were going to try again but she decided she wasn't ready and I freaked out. I told her to delete
Me from everything, I just couldn't cope, anymore. I suggested maybe, one day we could be friends, at some point. Just nor right now as it still too painful. It's a shame. We spent two wonderful years, together. We are both still in love with each other. My stupidity of bottling my problems of late, up. Just pushed her away and broke her heart. I didn't mean too. It was just my coping mechanism. Which isn't an excuse. I've even gotten help. There isn't anything I can do to show her this. She won't let
Me and she won't let me go. I feel she is trying to
Keep me around until either she can, try again or can realise she doesn't want me like that. Either way it's tearing me apart. We text talked, bad idea, I know and I realised that I am the one in bits, I am the one not sleeping or not going out with friends. Bar the past two months I tret her like a princess, I wasn't a bad girlfriend. Her friends and mine even said I was the best girlfriend, ever! Anyway, I digress. Whilst text talking I realised, that this was just too painful and I didn't reply. Every time, I thought about doing it. I'd put on a song, have a cry or text a friend. That's is why I'm writing on here now. To get it out. I've exasperated this topic with friends and family and I don't want them to see me like this, anymore. It has been two months. I feel like I got dumped, yesterday. I have terrible
Problems sleeping... As she invades my dreams constantly. I feel like maybe I need professional help? Don't get me wrong. I'm not a total
Misery. Whilst at work and when I manage to go out, very rarely. I always put
My game face on and try to make the most of it. I'm still incredibly screwed up and need advice.
Like this anymore. I

[amicon]

I'm sorry for your pain. Break ups take a long time to get over. I know am in middle of one. One step at the time one day at the time is how I try to core. Good luck

[talaniman]

The first thing is there is no need to start new questions, just add to the original one, that saves the confusion.

Secondly you should be seeing that false hope has you running into a brick wall, and should leave the girl alone, and get your own life, without here.

Your right about one thing, its over, and has been for a long time, but you just keep trying to change her mind, and that seldom works.

Change your tactics, and disappear from her life as she has yours. No Contact was made for you.