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    #481

    Apr 8, 2009, 01:11 PM
    Tell me something, this friend how close is he to her? I just want to make sure he is not getting in between but at the same time playing the caring friend. You know what I mean?


    Quote Originally Posted by crazyoverher View Post
    I want more than anything than for you two to reunite and continue your love affair. I know you want that more than anything too but I too pray for your reconciliation with her. I know what it is to have your"soulmate" so close but yet still so far away... I look forward to spending time having a beer

    thats what our friend said to me today....
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    #482

    Apr 8, 2009, 01:12 PM
    Hey its true, it does work.


    Quote Originally Posted by crazyoverher View Post
    thats funny Tony71!!! maybe that does happen...when u have fun..it switches.... :) yeah, vegas will be a blast ....ull have a great time.
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    #483

    Apr 8, 2009, 01:14 PM

    Well he's HER friend first... known her for all her life. I just met him 3 years ago. Yeah, kctiger... I

    Ill remind him not to say a word on Friday!
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    #484

    Apr 8, 2009, 01:29 PM

    I see. Like Kctiger said, tell him to stop talking about her.
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    #485

    Apr 8, 2009, 01:35 PM

    Yes.. I will do that. Its disappointing that he kind of showed me his thoughts when I said for him not to... but you can see by his email... he didn't say too much. I KNOW he's been talking to her because he tells me so... but he doesn't tell me about what... anyway... my head hurts from thinking about all this! Lol I just want to have a nice cold beer and enjoy the sun with some music... is that too much to ask? It seems that with either of them... all I get is DRAMA.

    I'm really tired of any drama at all. I'm even thinkigin that I'm going to go to the extreme and have my next girlfriend be a laid back stone head!! Rather than any grief!!
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    #486

    Apr 8, 2009, 05:22 PM

    This is how I keep myself busy
    YouTube - Khalid's verison of Hope it gives you hell parody video for ex girlfriend
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    #487

    Apr 8, 2009, 09:04 PM

    Hey everyone... u know I don't know why I thought this, I guess we all revert back one way or another to some things we remember... im going to go to bed. Not whining or wistful or pity or nothing but you know my ex girlfriend used to do?

    She would write her name with MY last name... she would always refer to herself as Mrs. "crazy" lol... :)

    Isn't that MESSED up! Must be late at night... sheesh.

    Later all... wish I could change my name from

    Crazyoverher to "SlowlyGettinOverHer"
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    #488

    Apr 9, 2009, 06:40 AM
    Keep it up, soon you will be crazyforanother. :D at least the next one you know how to handle her.


    Quote Originally Posted by crazyoverher View Post
    hey everyone....u know i dont know why i thought this, i guess we all revert back one way or another to some things we remember...im gonna go to bed. not whining or wistful or pity or nothing but u know my ex gf used to do?

    she would write her name with MY last name...she would always refer to herself as Mrs. "crazy" lol... :)

    isnt that MESSED up!? must be late at night.... sheesh.

    later all...wish i could change my name from

    Crazyoverher to "SlowlyGettinOverHer"
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    #489

    Apr 9, 2009, 11:37 AM

    Hey tony... well ill know what not to tolerate!
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    #490

    Apr 9, 2009, 12:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by crazyoverher View Post
    hey everyone....u know i dont know why i thought this, i guess we all revert back one way or another to some things we remember...im gonna go to bed. not whining or wistful or pity or nothing but u know my ex gf used to do?

    she would write her name with MY last name...she would always refer to herself as Mrs. "crazy" lol... :)

    isnt that MESSED up!? must be late at night.... sheesh.

    later all...wish i could change my name from

    Crazyoverher to "SlowlyGettinOverHer"
    So you got the divorce without having to pay her ailmony. Looks like you won after all.
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    #491

    Apr 9, 2009, 06:13 PM

    Chuff... thats sooooo freaking funny!
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    #492

    Apr 9, 2009, 06:15 PM
    Hey gang...

    Going to go have that "beer" with our mutual friend tomorrow... kinda scary but ill remind him not to say anything. Ill let eveyone know what the heck happens! Wish me luck.
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    #493

    Apr 9, 2009, 08:32 PM
    Good luck man. If he starts tell him see yah!


    Quote Originally Posted by crazyoverher View Post
    hey gang....

    gonna go have that "beer" with our mutual friend tomorrow...kinda scary but ill remind him not to say anything. ill let eveyone know what the heck happens! wish me luck.
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    #494

    Apr 10, 2009, 05:18 AM

    Why do you continue to hang out with your drama queen mutual friend? I can't imagine having a beer with this dude... doesn't he drink martinis or some daiquiris?

    Seems to me, you get alcohol in this guy, and he wouldn't be able to shut up about you and your ex...
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    #495

    Apr 10, 2009, 09:52 AM

    kctiger... u very perceptive.. I never thought about that!

    Well, we were going to have a beer in the afternoon just a few hours you know... like at applebees... but I have a new deadline I have to meet for a temp job I got... so I have to do that. I called and told him that if anything, I couldn't do it till this evening... I doubt he has the time to go out then... but you never know.

    On another note, I didn't know how much I HATE drama until I got this temp gig... the people there are ugly in how they talk to me and to people.

    And I had to stand up for myself today. I was nervous because I don't like it. And I don't like to be that way you know?

    But its over now, at least temporarily and although I feel good because I got it out.. I started to think about my ex and how she always used to do that type of thing to me and I really dislike it. Its not that I'm a wimp but why does anyone have to be like that?

    Comments?
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    #496

    Apr 10, 2009, 10:05 AM

    Hi Crazy,

    What happened at the job?
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    #497

    Apr 10, 2009, 11:29 AM

    Well... they didn't pay anyone when they should have... they said that it was the second week not the first but it was weekly... so, I can't quit because I need the money.. anyway, I told them and they started saying that I'm lucky to have a job blah blah... then it led to other co worker saying things and then an argument and drama.
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    #498

    Apr 10, 2009, 12:24 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by crazyoverher View Post
    well...they didnt pay anyone when they should have....they said that it was the second week not the first but it was weekly....so, i can't quit because i need the money..anyway, i told them and they started saying that im lucky to have a job blah blah...then it led to other co worker saying things and then an argument and drama.
    Oh Geez, just want you need. NOT!
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    #499

    Apr 10, 2009, 12:41 PM

    I KNOW!!

    Don't want drama of any kind... tired of that crap. Got to stay here till later... gonna have a beer tonight with him.
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    #500

    Apr 10, 2009, 12:50 PM

    Tonight? Good luck! And stay strong, okay? We are all in your corner!!

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