[DrJ]

Im curious if this is something that could be permitted so it could be done properly. Have you guys looked into a way to do this legally/properly?

[crystalbivens]

Dolly its your life and your body if this is what you want don't let anyone stand in your way... :-)

[dollygal]

Thanks bivens, I won't! Dr. J, I have not asked authorities... I'm afraid if I do they will be more strict with our visits. I've googled and research and can not find much on the subject...

[crystalbivens]

That's very true you need to come up with a good plan before attempting or they may ban you from even visiting him.
When you visit with him is it behind glass or can you actually touch him?

[JoeCanada76]

Dolly, If this is something you want to do then do it. I just wished there was an easier way for you. I was not being judgemental at all. I was answering your question to the best of my knowledge and trying to help you out at the same time.

Please do let us know how it works. I wished there was an easier way for you that is all. Best of luck and God bless you too.

Joe

[DrJ]

Check this out...

Article 12 of the Convention guarantees the right to marry and found a family: a refusal by the Prison Department to allow you to marry or to start a family by artificial insemination could be challenged under this article.

The info is out there and apparently prisons have allowed for this (artificially, of course)

Here's a Google search

artificial insemination from prison - Google Search

[Emland]

dollygal: I hope you take this in the spirit in which it is meant.

Your baby deserves a mom and a dad. Although your husband may be innocent, it doesn't mean he will get out any time soon. In Virginia, an innoncent man was recently released - he served 23 years for a rape he didn't commit.

Please think of the psychological issues for your child if you decide to do this. Your husband won't be able to share the pregnancy or first smile or first day of school if he is still locked up. Your child may be treated differently by his peers (or more likely friend's parents) if and when they find out dad is in prison. Children can be cruel and some parents are just plain jerks.

I am not judging. I just feel like you are cheating both your husband and yet-to-be-conceived child of a relationship with each other.

[rankrank55]

Emland has some really great points as well dollygal; but I do,however, understand that your choices are limited and if I were in your situation I would be doing the same thing as you. Good luck!

[Balloons33]

I want to know how this ends.

[blah420x]

Like drjizzle posted earlier... have him masterbate into a pee cup and how to get it in... uhhh take it to a doctor that can probably use a syringe (w/o the needle of course) and inject into you vajayjay... anything like a eye dropper sort may work... but it has to big. I think you can get a syringe like thingy for cooking and take off the needle... I don't know what its called or used for. Well best of luck. Hope I helped.

[dollygal]

Well guys I'm pregnant... THANKS so much for everyone's help and input. Can't give too many details... Things are looking good for my hubs too... maybe he will get to see the baby while he/she is still young! God bless all of you for not judging me!

[DrJ]

HOLY @#*%iING $#*&!! Are you serious?? WOOOHHOOOO! That is so awesome!! CONGRATULATIONS!!

WOW... won't that be a story to tell your child some day! Lol

[MrsHec4]

CONGRATULATIONS I'd like to know how you did it? Send me a private message if u don't want to post.

[Balloons33]

Congratz!!

[alkalineangel]

Wow. Good for you... I never thought it would work... im blown away.

[crystalbivens]

OMG send me a private message to, I'm anxious to know how it was done.
Congrats though...
When are you due?

[bekah876]

Oh my gosh! I never thought it would work. I would love to know how you did it. I can't believe you are pregnant. How far along are you?

[dollygal]

You guys are great, lol. Love your comment Dr.J... yes it will be some story to tell one day! I am honestly stunned about how well and perfectly all this worked out for us... something from above is definitely looking over us. For you guys who are dying to know, lol, my husband found some sort of plastic baggy thingys(don't know where he got them honestly) and place the sperm in it... he knew about when I was coming to visit that day so that it wouldn't die. Once I arrived we were able to take a walk onto the court yard where he discretely slipped the baggy to me... I was SO nervous. I pretended to be mad and left my visit early where I then walked to my car and done the deed with a syringe. We succeeded in doing this twice during my peak fertility and it worked!! I am 7 weeks and 1 day and my due date it April 15, 2008. :)

[Balloons33]

Wow, so meant to be :)

[alkalineangel]

Amazing!