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    May 9, 2007, 07:50 PM
    why is it hard for me
    I have no problem getting a GF but I end up breaking up with them after like a month or 2 and every time I do I feel bad because I hurt them but I don't no why I break up with them its hard for me to keep them because I break up and I don't no why even if I don't have a reason I break up with them any tips help tired of hurt my x GF
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    May 9, 2007, 08:18 PM
    You have not mentioned your age but this is in teens so I will assume you are a younger teen, But this is often a common situation and a time as you learn how to deal in and with relationships and learn how to pick the right type of person also. And while it hurts now, but it does get better.

    So what we do is think about past relastionhsips, be honest in them, and work on keeping them.
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    May 9, 2007, 08:24 PM
    I am 17 by the way
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    May 9, 2007, 08:32 PM
    You probably don't like being held down I'm like that I'm a huge flirt and I always go nuts when someone is going to ask me out and if I say yes I lose interest quick
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    May 9, 2007, 08:36 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by noeymc
    i have no problem getting a GF but i end up breaking up with them after like a month or 2 and every time i do i feel bad because i hurt them but i dont no why i break up with them its hard for me to keep them because i break up and i dont no why even if i dont have a reason i break up with them any tips help tired of hurt my x GF
    PERHAPS you fear being hurt, so you stay until you start having feelings, then you want to quickly end it, could this be the case ?
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    May 9, 2007, 08:39 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by MissAdvice
    PERHAPS you fear being hurt, so you stay until you start having feelings, then you want to quickly end it, could this be the case ?


    I don't know to tell you the truth I mean I don't no lol I am not very open about my feelings I don't no you probably right it might go back to when I was little I was beaten then adopted then my step dad and step mom got a devorse so you mgiht be right I don't think I am a very trusting person so you probably right
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    May 9, 2007, 08:43 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by noeymc
    i dont know to tell you the truth i mean i dont no lol i am not very open about my feelings i dont no you probly right it might go back to when i was little i was beaten then adopted then my step dad and step mom got a devorse so u mgiht be right i dont think i am a very trusting person so u probly right

    Abuse can be a hard issue to deal with, it often does create trust issues in relationships. Maybe you shy away, because you subconciously remember the pain of when you got to close to others in the past. The best way, is to maybe just have friends and keep it on a friendship level. I don't advise teens on sexual issues. Yay or nay... But maybe friends is best for you until you can develop trust.
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    May 9, 2007, 08:47 PM
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    Thanks you for your adivse

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