[krystalricky]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now But I am going through a lot and seem to be taking it out on him. He does the same thins once in awhile. Like my mom just died back in December of 2006, and my family got split up. My lilltle brother went with my aunt me and my older brother are both over 18. One lives in New York 2 of us live in PA but a hour awayfrom each other. My question is what do you guys think I should do different when I get madd,and feel like taking it out on other people?

[texxxas]

you shouldn't take it out on other people, period. I bet it's tough, I couldn't imagine losing my mom and having my family be split up like that, but it really helps to talk things out, tell your boyfriend how your feeling instead of taking it out on him, something to this effect might make him understand you more and make you feel much better, "babe, i'm sorry, since my mom's death, i just feel really depressed and i know i take it out on you alot, thank you for dealing with it, but can i talk about it with you? i just need someone to listen" he would be glad to be there for you, if he's a good guy =) good luck and I'm sorry to hear

[CarrotTalker]

I agree with the above post.

Have you considered talking with a therapist about what your feeling?

Do you try to write down your family problems in a journal of some type?

[amicon]

It's an old thread-2007.