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Junior Member
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May 24, 2009, 11:25 AM
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Am I bisexual?
I'm a 25 year old straight woman who likes watching porn (alone) who has always dated men. But every time I watch porn I get much more aroused by female's body than that of men. I don't know why, it's been like this since I was 15. Penis arouses me too, but not as much as female breasts.
I had a very brief dating experience with a tomboy (not a lesbian, well, technically yes, but the kind who dresses and acts like a guy). We never got physical, but I always blushed when she flirted with me. I even had feelings for her at that time, but it was short-lived. I never have this kind of feeling with other girls and I've never really thought of her as a gal. I'm currently in a relationship with a guy, but I keep having this threesome fantasy with a woman. Never pictured a full-blown lesbian sex, but definitely fantasised about breasts. Am I bisexual?
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Full Member
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May 24, 2009, 02:16 PM
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It sounds like you are curious. I don't know that you are bi-sexual. I am not into labels. Having a threesome would likely be disasterous.
How do you feel about your boyfriend? Would you rather be with a gal? These are things to think about.
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New Member
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May 24, 2009, 06:44 PM
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Well I advise not to think about it deeply Just think that you are a normal girl and having a normal life
If you start thinking too much you may finish by believing that you are bisexual
Well try in another side to lead your life normally avoid these things that may excite you by being sexual Any human being is exposed to change to lesbian bisexual or homo all these people were normal at the beginning and because they were exposed to some bad experiences they were victims
So I advice to think that you are normal and lead your life normally
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Ultra Member
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May 24, 2009, 06:58 PM
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I suppose the question I would ask is - why does it matter?
Human sexuality is multifaceted and varied and we are aroused by a multiplicity of sights, sensations and stimuli.
My suggestion would be to stop labelling it - who cares if it's "bi" or whatever - enjoy the fact that you are aroused by female breasts and have a rich fantasy life. Use it to strengthen your current sexual relationship rather than detracting from it.
Stop worrying - enjoy.
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Junior Member
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May 24, 2009, 07:49 PM
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Whenever I watch porn, the women turn me o more, only because when I'm watching what the man is doing to her, I KNOW how that feels and I can relate. Im not looking at the girl thinking, ooo I want her.. I'm looking and thinking - omg I know how that feels, that is hot...
Could it be that?
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Pets Expert
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May 24, 2009, 10:02 PM
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Sadly we can't tell you if you're bi or not, that's something you have to figure out for yourself.
By 25 most people know their sexual preference. What does your gut tell you?
Good luck.
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Ultra Member
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May 24, 2009, 10:10 PM
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I am more aroused by the female form, but I am not converting. Although I enjoy the female form more, I wouldn't want to be without a man in the bedroom.
But honestly if you think about it the look of the penis isn't overwhelmingly attractive, but it's what the penis does that makes it so wonderful. :D
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Ultra Member
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May 25, 2009, 02:12 AM
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I don't think your bisexual at all. Looking at females doesn't make you bisexual but being with another female will (if you date both male and females).
Do you fantasize about being with another woman? If you were to partipate in a threesome would you add a girl or guy to the mixture?
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New Member
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May 25, 2009, 02:17 AM
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No you are not. If you like men and do men but never women you are not bisexual. If you did men and women you would be. Watching porn doesn't make you bi sexual either.
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New Member
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May 25, 2009, 02:20 AM
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Originally Posted by Meow420
Whenever i watch porn, the women turn me o more, only because when im watchin what the man is doin to her, i KNOW how that feels and i can relate. Im not lookin at the girl thinking, ooo i want her.. im looking and thinkin - omg i know how that feels, that is hot...
could it be that?
I also agree with Meow420. :):):D:D
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Junior Member
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May 25, 2009, 02:26 AM
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Originally Posted by techdude
I also agree with Meow420. :):):D:D
I thought I might be bisexual for a little while there too.. when I get a little drunk I have been known to kiss girls, but sexually, they just don't do it for me. The best porn I've ever seen has been lesbian porn (its all I buy now) but that doesn't make me a lesbian.
Its just has a better way of reaching out to us girls as opposed to just penis in vagina pumpin that the men seem to like lol
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Uber Member
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May 25, 2009, 03:04 AM
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No, you are not.
It is perfectly normal for women to admire the bodies of others.
I watch porn and look at the women, if I think they are pretty or have nice breasts does that make me bi?
No.
To me a bisexual person is someone who not only engages in sexual relations with another woman but who would also be willing to have an actual relationship with the right girl.
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