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on the go · Apr 25, 2009, 12:53 PM

About a month and a half ago I met a girl on a street at 10:00 a.m. and within minutes we were back at my house engaging in consensual sexual activity. I'm 22 and at that time she had told me she was 16. At 2:30 p.m. I get a call from a friend that goes to school with her and tells me that a teacher overheard this girl talking to her friends about her morning encounter, questioned her, and sent her to the principals office to give them an account of what happened. It turns out that this girl is only 14. The police get called in and she is sent to the hospital and a rape kit is done and my DNA was present. The statement she gave the doctors was an accurate one of consensual sex, but the statement the police have (one which I believe to be coerced) says that I forced myself on her. I have previous convictions and am currently on felony probation. I went to my lawyer on the same day as the incident and he informed me that the situation looked very grim and that I would be facing a prison term. I panicked and immediately left the country. I have not been charged with a crime yet but am wanted for questioning and will no doubt be charged with a B Felony once I am in police custody. My probation officer sent me a letter stating that I will be violated on probation. I want to come back to New York and deal with this, but I don't want to be apprehended at the airport upon arrival and not have a chance to make necessary preparations. My questions are these:

1. If I enter through Canada, what will be the possible ramifications? (will I be allowed to enter the country, and if so, would I face extradition to the U.S)

2. If not Canada, could I enter through another state, or possibly Mexico?

3. Is my Violation of Probation statewide?

4. Is there a statute of limitations on an offense such as this?

5. Is there any way I can fight this case?

Please Help...

Alty · Apr 25, 2009, 12:59 PM

We're not going to tell you how to beat the system, that would be aiding and abetting a wanted criminal.

What where your former charges?

The girl is 14, even if it was consensual that's statutory rape.

Turn yourself in and suffer the consequences. You should have known better. Even 16 is way too young for a 22 year old and illegal in many states.

twinkiedooter · Apr 25, 2009, 04:35 PM

1. You won't be allowed to enter Canada due to your prior felony and the probable warrant for your arrest.

2. I don't know.

3. Yes, absolutely.

4. No.

5. A definite no on this one. They have you red handed with your DNA. Can't get any better than that for the DA to have a slam dunk case against you.

Turn yourself in and face the music. You will have to sooner or later and the longer you wait, the more time you will still have to do in prison.

Being on felony probation you sure like to take dumb chances with jail bait.

J_9 · Apr 25, 2009, 05:00 PM

I am not going to help you circumvent the system. You have compounded your situation even further by leaving the country.

Okay, since I have a daughter that is 15, I'm getting very red in the face, my blood pressure is rising and I'm going to get some reddies. I don't give a damm, but I got to say it.

You are a sick sick man. You deserve every second you get in prison. I can only hope beyond my wildest dreams that you are treated with brutality by the "women" in prison. You deserve every hind raping you get.

You are a pedophile, the lowest of the lowest. Should you show your face at my door you would be looking down the barrel of a loaded. 44 mag.

So, what if you THINK she's 16, that's still a freaking minor!!

You are scum and you don't deserve another minute on this planet.

It's time to face the music freak!

mudweiser · Apr 25, 2009, 05:04 PM

The only way your going to be fighting anything is when your in jail fighting Big Boy off you.

Your disgusting.

Sarah

friend4u178 · Apr 25, 2009, 05:13 PM

Sicko!!

Hope you get what's coming to you.

J_9 · Apr 25, 2009, 05:14 PM

Would you happen to be anywhere near New Delhi India?

Alty · Apr 25, 2009, 05:16 PM

See, you can run but you can't hide.

And your thread can be used as evidence against you.

Isn't life grand? The guilty always get what's coming to them, and I'd say it's about time where you're concerned.

J_9 · Apr 25, 2009, 05:28 PM

Originally Posted by on the go

About a month and a half ago I met a girl on a street at 10:00 a.m. and within minutes we were back at my house engaging in consensual sexual activity. I'm 22 and at that time she had told me she was 16. At 2:30 p.m. I get a call from a friend that goes to school with her and tells me that a teacher overheard this girl talking to her friends about her morning encounter, questioned her, and sent her to the principals office to give them an account of what happened. It turns out that this girl is only 14. The police get called in and she is sent to the hospital and a rape kit is done and my DNA was present. The statement she gave the doctors was an accurate one of consensual sex, but the statement the police have (one which I believe to be coerced) says that I forced myself on her. I have previous convictions and am currently on felony probation. I went to my lawyer on the same day as the incident and he informed me that the situation looked very grim and that I would be facing a prison term. I panicked and immediately left the country. I have not been charged with a crime yet but am wanted for questioning and will no doubt be charged with a B Felony once I am in police custody. My probation officer sent me a letter stating that I will be violated on probation. I want to come back to New York and deal with this, but I don't want to be apprehended at the airport upon arrival and not have a chance to make necessary preparations. My questions are these:

1. If I enter through Canada, what will be the possible ramifications? (will I be allowed to enter the country, and if so, would I face extradition to the U.S)

2. If not Canada, could I enter through another state, or possibly Mexico?

3. Is my Violation of Probation statewide?

4. Is there a statute of limitations on an offense such as this?

5. Is there any way I can fight this case?

Please Help...

I have quoted the post so that it cannot be deleted or edited in any way.

Alty · Apr 25, 2009, 05:41 PM

Oops, didn't think of that J. Sorry. :o

J_9 · Apr 25, 2009, 06:12 PM

I wonder if he is anywhere near (and the name of the street fits)

Teen Murti Ln in New Delhi

twinkiedooter · Apr 25, 2009, 06:29 PM

Not Charged but Wanted for Questioning. The Plot Thickens.

I just wanted to point out that this guy is not really taking this situation too seriously as he says the plot thickens. What does he think life is? A soap opera?

friend4u178 · Apr 25, 2009, 06:31 PM

Originally Posted by twinkiedooter

Not Charged but Wanted for Questioning. The Plot Thickens.

I just wanted to point out that this guy is not really taking this situation too seriously as he says the plot thickens. What does he think life is? A soap opera?

He'll realise how serious it is when the Law gets a hold of him :cool:

Alty · Apr 25, 2009, 06:36 PM

Originally Posted by friend4u178

He'll realise how serious it is when the Law gets a hold of him :cool:

Even more so when Big Bubba get's a hold of him. ;)

twinkiedooter · Apr 25, 2009, 06:48 PM

Oh, THEN his life will really turn into a soap opera with a few very unpleasant dramatic scenes. He will find out that all the imates will know what he did through the grapevine within about 1 hour of being in prison. Then let him wonder just how dumb he really is... real men do not tolerate kid rapers whether "consensual" sex went on or not.

earl237 · Apr 25, 2009, 06:49 PM

This guy has showed some very bad judgment. This is a good reason to avoid one night stands, especially with someone underage.

Alty · Apr 25, 2009, 06:52 PM

I doubt it was a one night stand or consensual.

I'm still curious what he was on probation for when this happened.

Something tells me this wasn't the first rape.

twinkiedooter · Apr 25, 2009, 07:16 PM

"I have previous convictions and am on felony probation".

Apparently this guy is no amateur either.

Why would he want to come back here instead of stay in India? I hope he does stay out of the US. We have enough problems without one more pedophile.

JoeCanada76 · Apr 25, 2009, 07:18 PM

Originally Posted by earl237

This guy has showed some very bad judgment. This is a good reason to avoid one night stands, especially with someone underage.

It is more then bad judgment here. The guy is 22 years old having sex with what he thought was a 16 year old which actually turned out to be 14.

This guy is a rapist.

This guy will get caught and will face up to the crime that HE committed.

Fr_Chuck · Apr 25, 2009, 07:23 PM

Originally Posted by on the go

1. If I enter through Canada, what will be the possible ramifications? (will I be allowed to enter the country, and if so, would I face extradition to the U.S)

2. If not Canada, could I enter through another state, or possibly Mexico?

3. Is my Violation of Probation statewide?

4. Is there a statute of limitations on an offense such as this?

5. Is there any way I can fight this case?

Please Help...

I will first address this from a legal view point only

a. a girl 14 can not consent, you can have her sign and testify she agreed to, but at 14 in the US it is still rape. If she consented you may only do 3 or 4 years instead of 5 to 10

1. no you will not be able to enter Canada, and if in Canada they would catch you at the boarder for any warrants on you

2. sneaking in along the border with illegal mexicans would be a option. But the best is to work with an attorney here in the US, to allow you to fly in, show up at the police station and turn yourself in .

3. Yes, first there would be a felony warrant for rape, but the probation warrant would also be on the NCIS system which is national and can even be accessed in Europe by Intropol.

4. Yes until you are charged, the minute they charge you and issue a warrant the SOL is froze, so once they issue a warrant they can wait 40 years go catch you.

5. Hope there is no evidence that you had sex with her, like this post for example traced to your IP address and sent to the police. Your attorney will guide you best, but since you can't lie on the stand, just don't testify and hope she can not prove you had sex with her.

The troubel here is that just having sex with her, she can agree, her mother can agree but at 14, legally she can not agree, so any sex is connsidered rape. So if they can just prove you had sex with her, not even using force, you are convicted.