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Originally Posted by
mashiat
I know this is stupid but... I'm helpless.. Can anyone of you please talk to him.. try and understand whether he did cheat on me(though I believe he didnt).. and whether my plan will work.. as in if given time for him to cool down will he come back?
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Seek out a mental health professional.. or a councelor... seriously... you can't MAKE him do anything... and the more you post about this the worse you look.
Seriosuly... you sound clingy, needy and obsessive... NOBODY needs or wants this much drama in their lives.
He flat out tells you he doesn't want to be with you anymore...
He says, "Mashiat, why don't you understand that I don't want to with you anymore?"
those were his words and you posted them. How much more clear can he possibly be.
What you call positive vibes.....are nothing mor ethan desperatly grabbing at anything you can call a shred of hope.....I see a guy who is trying to not be rude to you.....
I've been through this before with a female that just could not take a hint, or ANY hints...or seen to be able to take no for an answer without my having to get nasty about it.
I see nothing more than a guy thats trying to distance himself from you.....and going out of his way to be as nice about it as he can....and you misunderstand being courteous as "positive vibes" when all he is trying to do is be respectful as he tries to walk away.
He might even want to remain friendly...but you are making that all but impossible.