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Mom,

I move in a week. The relationship was never meant to be long term. A summer fling is a better way of putting it. So when I move, it will be difficult to continue dating and therefore we...

O I forgot about "Mark Twain"... for a one of the other girl servers... I used that awhile ago...

Samuel Clemens... Samantha (and she's a lesbian so I picked a guys name... I don't know)... Ah......

Okay...

The Names:

Carrot: He has red hair. No need to tell you his real name because it has nothing to do with the nickname.

Mr Good Bar: I have no idea. I was drunk at the time and...

You all are going to kill me... I went back to Divinci... I give up on things right now... I'm so confused... and toying with these guys' emotions is not fun or normally what I do... I'm tired of...

HUNO!! Wow! Umm... I'm speechless... I am NOT going to take your advice... thanks though!

Lol... well I ended things with Divinci and I went to the movies today with Gospel... so things are going great...

Huno,

Gospel moves in three weeks... there isn't time for "gradual" change... I introduced him to my brother and his girlfriend... they both love Gospel... and I really am excited about that...

If the situation isn't "bad at all". Why would you be asking for outside advice? Because somewhere in your heart you know it isn't right. Follow that instinct.

Mom,
I posted as you posted your shorter post. I already do go out with Gospel to movies and lunch and dinner, etc. I feel like Gospel and I seem to be "dating"... whereas Divinci and I just meet...

Mom,
No need to apologize for the long post. It is much appreciated. I finally came to the same conclusion: the if you have to hide it from your family then it isn't worth it.

Huno,
What...

Hey guys,

So I haven't posted in awhile and you said you wanted feedback so I figured now (at two in the morning because I can't sleep) was a great time.

Currently, I am bashing my head against...

Ha ha ha!! All of that is very funny but I work at a restaurant...

SO my manager decided to slip some Worcheshire (spelling?) Sauce in my drink, which I drank and almost threw up doing so. I told him that it meant war and spent the rest of the night trying to...

Ha ha. These names are getting a bit ridiculous... Divinci, Carrot, Gospel, Mr. Good Bar, and finally Mark Twain (for a girl... lol)... don't ask... they are all plays on names and characteristics...

Nicespringgirl,

The original topic of this thread has kind of become irrelevant. This is a different guy and we are already seeing each other. It's a long story... sort of. Ha!


Huno,
I...

Mom,
I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY!. he's a sweetheart.

Huno,
He purposely picks up shifts when I work to spend more time with me. And I mean horrible shifts that nobody would want because you don't...

Everything is going great, but it's really hard keeping the whole thing a secret. We told a select few about it (actually those few people figured it out). But, anyway, it is so difficult to see...

Thanks huno!

And of course the personality is the most important

Hmm... well I'd like to keep them to myself because by listing them I feel like I'm trying to defend myself and that doesn't need to be done...

But since you asked I will say that he is just an...

Well... I thought about it and I do have reasons which are good reasons so I'm guessing that means that it's okay to be crushing on him.

Ha! Wow you guys have really taken this far. Just Kidding.

Anyway, I don't mind the conversation, it actually does pertain to my problem anyway.

I normally go for preppy guys from middle...

I do live with my parents...

And the situation had more to do with the fact that we are totally different people and I said to him "usually you are not my type, but im drawn to you for some...

Huno,

Divinci has told me that he waited to break up with his ex because she was planning on leaving to go to school. So he didn't want there to be a rough period before that happened. ...

LOL! Well a lot has happened since the last post. Tonight I kissed Divinci. He broke up with his girlfriend two days ago. What I haven't really told you guys is that while I've been hung up on...

Ha ha! "Boy toys"... well Carrot has red hair... Gospel and Divinci are plays on their names... and Mr Good Bar... I actually have no idea why I chose that... I was under the influence... lol!

Well yes I am too shy to ask Carrot myself... it's the way I am... I hate that part about me. I know I should ask him, but it's just so hard to come right out and say it. <SIGH> I hate being shy. ...

Mom,

I am definitely NOT settling. I was more reacting to the fact that I had had so many choices of guys, but the one guy I wanted to have a relationship with was already taken. I am NOT going...

Of course I would still have him as a friend. He's a very nice guy, funny, smart, and ambitious. I just wish he was single. But, since he's not. Maybe in the future he will be. But, by then I'll...

Well I found out today... Carrot has a girlfriend according to Divinci. What's sad though is that Divinci said to me that I could probably take him away from her and I was like "really? how long...

Thank you huno :)

MOM... your advice was so clear and actually helped me lots. I have thought about things and have definitely decided that I want to pursue Carrot. He seems the most genuine out of the four. He's...

It's all great advice. I worked with Mr Good Bar tonight and lets just say it was so awkward. Yet I still think he's thinking about going after me (just a little). Gospel and I are so friendly...

O and Mr. Good Bar has a girlfriend. Although he says that he is stuck with her because they share an apartment and that he isn't happy being with her anymore. I'm thinking I need to stay out of...

I think he is single too. Just because he has never mentioned a girl at all. Just his "friends" which lumps them all together and I really don't think he's the kind to play down a girlfriend.
...

AND to Kristynn. I worked with Gospel today (the one you said I should go after, I believe)... And we talked about all kinds of stuff. Marriage came up (ha ha! He told me about how his friend just...

Mom, that is great advice.

Let's see what do we talk about. We talk about school and Virginia (and how much I hated it there and how much I love Florida better). He tells me about living in New...

Well nothing yet. I haven't really seen him for awhile (meaning I haven't worked with him for about a week or so). I did see him for about a half hour two days ago, but we just talked (more than...

I got so caught up on explaining the name I forgot to tell you what was so great about Carrot. I work in a restaurant as a server which can get very stressful and I get in bad moods sometimes. Just...

What is so special about Carrot. I only call him Carrot because he has red hair. That's it. That's the explanation for the name. The other two are more of like a play on words regarding their...

Ha ha!! I did not go into a seething rage. LOL! Sorry if it seemed that way. And I guess you are right, I need to take the plunge.

Your ideas are great if we were an older crowd. I do not think he is married. He is 20 and I am 18. I'm thinking about trying to get a bunch of people to go bowling because I love to bowl and I...

I know that your diet can really affect your smell. People on the Atkins diet who are eating mainly protein smell horrible (my mom was on it). Maybe if you are a big meat eater it could be that,...

I am a server at a restaurant and he is a host... the coffee ideas are great, but they don't really work for my job. We don't leave the restaurant until our shift is over.

I like this guy at work and I want to hang out with him outside of work (maybe even as a date), but I really don't want to wait around for him to ask me because he may never do it. Here's the thing...

Ha ha... carrots are good for the eyes... in more ways then one (HE IS CUTE!).

Doesn't SOUND like pnemonia to me... I had pneumonia and it was completely different symptoms like coughing up clear bad-smelling plegm, high fever, feeling ill.

You are complaining of a sore...

Well. I work at a restaurant and there are three guys there who have caught my attention in different ways. The first is Divinci (not really I changed all of their names). Divinci is really fun...

I didn't really know which topic to put this question in, but I guess this will do.

I work at a restaurant and there is a guy there who I flirt with and he flirts back. I always grab him and...

Ha ha... no I'm not attracted to girls... so I am straight, but she hasn't tried to "get" with me...

THANK YOU ALL! You're answers were great. I'm glad a lot of you guys said that bisexual...