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Just to let you all know that I've still received no letter explaining why I've been suspended and it will be day 12 tomorrow :-(

I know Judy, this is my life in there hands and I'm having a nervous breakdown here. I know a job isn't worth my health and life but my reputation is at stae and I'm never going to get another job...

I don't know if the rules are different here in the UK to the US, but the principleshould stand surely?

In my place of work like many it's a case of NOT what you know but WHO you know. Ive done nothing wrong and I'm being accused I think of allegedly swearing at a service user which I didn't do, hence...

Sorry only half my reply got printed ? Its like I'm being left to mull over my fate without any communication. I don't know how long I can take this withot something doing somehing silly. If I lose...

Thanks for your reply, yes I understand that it was my own problem to get home. Im being bullied and there's nothing I can do

I forgot to say, the manager sent me home the day the above happened stating I was stressed and needed a rest. Im going through divorce/buying/selling house and feel she is using my personal life to...

Not only that but I can't talk to my friends as I work with them - I feel I've lost everything. How the hell can a company investigate "she said that i said to a service user" its hearsay and totally...

Its been 10 days now since I was sent home. Ive lost so much weight and having suicidal thoughts, I've done nothing wrong, its like the employee is treated like dirt and the service user has all the...

Sorry I forgot to mention, I'm not in a union and I have not got a clue what has been alleged? I went to my boss and told her that a service user had stated I had sworn at them (I did not do this and...

Hi and thanks for your reply. No body else has been suspended, I know that as a safe guarding issue it needed to be investigated. I understand that it is alleged at ths point hence full pay but this...

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THanks for taking the time to read my story. To cut a long story short approx 9 days ago my boss called me into the office when I got into work and said I needed to go home immediately and that...

I will do my best tomorrow to keep my distance, but what do I say when he comes over and talks to me. I don't want to be rude and blank him

The trouble is that he always says he will leave iif we part but I know deep down he won't leave!! Jobs are difficult to find especially at his age. He will stay there and make my life hell for sure....

Thank you all for taking the time to write your own experiences, I really appreciate it so much. I know the right thing is to dump him and get him to hit the high road. When the wife found out she...

I understand that that is always the reason hence why we see other people so if he don't leave then I'm not left waiting for something that is never going to happen. Every time I say lets see other...

He says to me when his wife asked him about whether he was having an affair he admitted it as he wanted to be free and with me. He said he didn't need to tell her and could have denied it and stayed...

I'm so sad but thank you all

Talaniman, he says he know he has treated me appaulingly and thanks me for my patience and even says he don't blame me if I go and leave him and find another as it will be his fault. Its just so hard...

Thank you for your honest answers, his wife is seeing a divorce lawyer this week and he has a skip at the house to move all his rubbish in so he does not have as much to move. He says he is moving in...

This is probably a question that you hear all the time so I apologise in advance. Basically I'm a 35 yr old separated woman who is seeing a 56 yr old man who separated from his wife 4 weeks ago after...