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Hey kc! How you been? I should start coming here more to give the newer guys any nuggets of wisdom I can dig up. God knows how much I appreciated you guys 12 months ago

And yeah, if I had said...

Hahaha, wow, this merged topic is awesome

And yeah, she definitely knew there was a chance of seeing me there, she knew I worked there and honestly after the things we've been through actually...

Yeah she did, over a year ago. I came here a lot then for guidance. A few times after I popped back to offer some

I was just annoyed with myself that she could still provoke a reaction, even if...

It was so weird LOL. I've been NC for about a year now (broke up just over a year ago), and then all of a sudden I walk out of my office and come face to face with her. She was apparently hired by...

I really miss her. I don't know what exactly is bringing all this to the surface right now. She was my best friend for 3 years. That's what hurts the most - the fact she's gone entirely. If that...

Hey guys, it's been a while. I hope you're all doing well :)

Two months ago me and my ex had contact for a few days. It was a complete mistake - she ended up choosing the other guy over me. ...

Yes. I told her when I met up with her that I forgave her a long time ago for leaving - she was unhappy, and it could not have been easy to do. I held no hard feelings and was just glad to see her....

Thank you.. and yes. I understood where I failed in the relationship, I wrote out a list of my flaws, the deepest ones I could pull up that even made me feel ashamed. And one by one I started to...

Hey guys... a lot of you don't know me, I'm just a stranger, a name and voice over the internet, but I had a message to bring you here. This is for those of you who are out there hurting, and in...

Hey guys.. I'm back from Japan.. the trip itself was CRAZY. Completely rockstar way of life for the 2 weeks we were there... great memories... man.. once I got home I still couldn't believe I'd done...

Hey guys.. I've never posted on this board before.. generally been on relationships. I came out of a 3 year relationship about 2 months ago (maybe a little more). Her decision. A couple of days...

I was friends before I dated my ex but I was always attracted to her and she knew this from the get go. After we got together and hearing I was "the one" for 3 years I'm not sure when, if ever, I...

26/09/08 - 3:31pm

Hey lads this will be my last update before I hit up Japan. I get back mid-October.

I'm feeling pretty good, got my bag packed up, all set to go... I fly early tomorrow...

Normal thinking IMO, and something that probably happens a lot ("a lot" is pretty relative though).

That's why you have to be SO kick the girl doesn't even want to wander - but that goes without...

I could have written that, to the way it ended, to the amount of time we were together for.



This is basically key to show yourself to go no-contact. If you learn anything from this board, let...

You did the right thing.

I read a quote somewhere that sort of applies here: if he had enough nerve to cut you loose, you need enough courage to stay gone.

Man I love you guys, if any of you are here in Brisbane AUS hit me up and we'll go grab a beer, my shout

24/09/08 - 4:57PM

Yeah not feeling too shabby actually. I went out to lunch today with...

Holy **** man, good work! That takes major steel. I probably would have answered... it's why I changed my number (I guess that was dealing with it in my own way).

Major props, keep us updated

Heya brew, don't really have anything knew to add. Just letting you know I'm still here cheering for you

How's it all going anyway, how you holding up this week?

If anyone's out there reading this, have any of you ever thought this -

The Silvia I knew and loved and who loved me is gone... it's almost like she died.

There's another girl out there...

23/09/08

Lol... I signed up for this like, online dating thing. Can't hurt right? I went to grab a photo of me off my myspace. Except it was an old one that the ex had commented on 'I love you...

You're doing great man. And yes, it's strange hey, we're very different age-wise. But the stories are still the same.

To be honestly fair, with my situation, the other guy was someone who was...

LOL

21/09/08 - 7:14PM

I really, really wanted to break NC earlier today, be like hey what's up how you going you want to catch up tonight just as friends?

I slept it off.

Phew

Tell me about it. Man, I really want to call her and ask her out for dinner.

I almost need someone to talk me down from doing it.

21 September 2008 - 7:16am

I had some really crazy ******* dreams last night, I've only slept for 4 hours, I need to get these down. Please bare with me... these do make me sound like I belong in...

Dear S,

You said you were my family, you and Mister Nin. Do you know how heartbreaking it was to watch you walk away? No, you don't, and now you are gone, and Nin is gone, and my family is gone....

Ahhh damn man, that sucks .

How you holding up otherwise? Today has sucked for me, I feel like I'm dying again

September 20 - 7:35pm

Feels like I'm relapsing in a way. I went out last night with the boys, had a GREAT night, but got totally hammered. I'm 99% sure the alcohol in my system sunk me low today...

Awesome man :) happy for you. My closest friend now (who have witnessed everything) have started to say I'm ready to really throw my lot in now and get back out there. They're right I think - the...

Do it man. If you're like me these thoughts are impossible to bottle and they rip you to pieces from the inside. This is probably the most supportive atmosphere I've seen on the internet and trust...

NC has been... a month? Over a month? I've been single now for almost two, broke nc once near the beginning. I'm out of the one day at a time thing, so time blurs now, days turn to weeks and it's...

18/09/08 - 10:57 PM

Last night I chilled with my boys on the northside, had a great night. Got dinner with a mate after work tonight, haven't seen her since school finished.

Same ol same ol -...

I feel the ezaxt same way man, that's why I made sure I fell off the radar entirely. I don't know how I would take seeing her. That's why I've made sure I don't. I feel fine now and I don't even WANT...

Word to that man. Word to that. I'm stillsurprised all of mine came round (I basically spam
Txted everybody and they all bit). Friends will be there when partners won't. I know that now and I'd...

Also something to think about - when I broke up I knew mutual friends would talk about it eventually. And when they did, I made sure as **** it wouldn't be along the lines of "jai took it really hard...

You will man! Don't worry! All you need to is stick to that desire to lose them and you will!

Reading the stories here, the difference between those who heal and those who don't (imo) is that the...

I've been there man, seeing the ex's car. I know exactly what you mean with the heart skipping a beat. It's just one of those things hey? We're getting stronger all the time.

An epiphany I had the...

16/09/08 - 8:57PM

I'm okay. Had a good day at work and just got home from dinner with my mate. Also got a chicks number (not sure if it really counts or not LOL), who was interested in me back...

It gets easier bro - I still can't believe how, but it does.

Sounds like you're in for a good day. You're young, you have your health, the whole world is sitting for us out there man. We're both...

15/09/08 - 8:03pm

I think it's official - I'm back 100%.

I heard through the grapevine about a mutual friend going through a very incredible low (I won't go into it here). This girl was my...

I also think, now that I'm healed and I can actually think logically about things again without my entire perspective going straight to grey (best way of explaining how I felt last month), I'm on the...

14/09/08 - 5:26PM

Wow where to begin. I hit the coast up with my mate, but, I think he could really be in trouble. He still contacts her a lot (he's told me she's asked for space), ringing and...

You're doing all the right things bro. You're going to start feeling better before you know it. Food for thought, NC definitely gets easier with time. You still get the odd occasional spike, but the...

Sorry for the big quote, by browsers broken and won't let me quick answer.

12/09/08

A lot of stuff has happened. Been having a great couple days with the boys, plus the LHC fired and didn't...

10/09/08 - 8:20am

On my way to work. Doing OK. Stayed up too late last night (I enjoy them because it feels like I'm myself again). Hanging with the boys tonight. I love my mates, and it's funny,...

09/09/08 - 11:15pm

Hanging in there. Talked to a couple of mates tonight. One is a guy I've known for a long time now (around 5 years) who honestly thinks I'm being crazy and that I'll have a...

I won't give in, I try to tell myself it's a game Im playing and by not contacting her I win. You guys are right in that it does feel like in going through withdrawal symptoms. I miss the peer bond...

9/09/08

I'm at work. Miss her terribly. Last night was OK. I want to call her, see her. But she's gone. I keep wondering if she misses me and wants me back, but if I got in contact and she didn't...

busterite is on the money man. You HAVE to protect yourself now. God knows the thoughts are bad enough - I think if I encountered something like that for real I'd be scared of what I'd do. Be...

I wonder too sometimes. Should I chase my ex? Then I realize Im still afraid to walk away. It's already happened. I sometimes think she'll be waiting for me when I get home. She never is man. The...