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Far from all referred to as nannies are educated, but rather some more childcare-oriented housemaid.

Domestic workers may usually be divided into housemaids and nannies (or au pair girls). This gives you some opportunities, like these three household examples, when employng them:

A = Housemaid,...

Why does she resist English? I doubt she has any political opinion about it.

Which is her native language? If it's French, German or Spanish, they're still global (or more "European" for German), but tell her the advantages of being an English-speaking person and living in an...

At 14, the older's a teenage girl. Maybe she was now tired of all these years of just having to do and dress as being told, and saw it as a chance. While not abuse, don't you think his actings...

I agree with you. We don't accept adult people acting as tyrants to each other, so why with kids? Having strict rules and dress codes for your daughters is one thing, but after all they're still your...

Just because I comfort her during punishment, I don't reduce the punishment. I usually ground her and let her write lines, if she comes to cry or ask something she can, then I tell her to go back...

Sure I can send her to her room with some tears, but when the punishment is over, it is. As that girl said, they were only comforted when very serious things happened. Sure he can do so, but do you...

If I see about poor people in Africa with children who are hungry (not beaten) but with loving parents, I can cry for them, but still feel hope and a warmth. In this case as I said, the hope may be...

So if she throws herself over you crying, do you just continue scolding? I always comfort her if she cries, even when I punish her (like grounding pr having her write lines), I can't neglect her...

I understand what you mean about going on, and I'm not going there again on Friday, but I just hope you understand even for me I think it's hard. Imagine yourself being a little girl, and you always...

I know who the Amish is (a Christian group in the northern parts of the USA, and in Canada, where many live like 200 years ago). I'm in the Western World, but I don't say exactly where, for the girls...

Restaurants are public places. I would not sneak outside their house.

I know some waitress girls have been upset. I don't know sure, but weren't many 19th century-early 20th century upper class daughters raised very strict? One reason would be that people feel proud,...

I wish we could live separate, but I think it's important to react sometimes, as long as I follow the laws of the government..

Our daughter already knows people have different opinions, but there are some things that at least 99 % of all people think are not OK, and among them are probably shouting at little girls for...

My theory is that as he'd just been so mad at them, they had probably almost nothing left to loose (he would already shout at them as much he could at home) and saw it as a last chance to let some...

In which way are Amish strict? I'm pretty sure he's not an Amish, just a very strict upper class father who doesn't understand being too strict can damage his daughter's emotions.

She turned 12 years old earlier this year. Mostly if she asks questions, but sometimes we feel we need to talk with her about more serious issues, things that should not just exist in the world, but...

Amish live like 200 years ago. He lives like other in the modern world. It's his children, but what makes me so sad is him shouting at two crying girls who do everything they can to obey their strict...

What is wrong with me discussing abuse with my daughter? Shall I say it's a funny thing? It's better to talk with her about the issue, and let her cry when she needs.

As I said, I was so touched by seeing these two girls being sad. I can just imagine the pressure the girls may feel to meet all requirements and dress codes, or having to listen to him shouting for...

Yes, my daughter knows what real abuse is. We have cried together over newspaper articles about abuse, and I explain to her that how these girls are threatened may not go under abuse and be illegal,...

What happens is him having very strict and conservative upper class view how a girl shall be raised, behave, obey, look, dress and appear (as he told he wasn't threatened strict as child, but they...

As I said, he at least could talk about it.

Our daughter doesn't want to play with them, just talk with them how they feel. I also think children comforting each other is a good idea, even in more serious cases but when I read what you write,...

His toilet visit lasted long, which better allowed me to talk with his daughters.

What can I do to let my daughter see his daughters (they're not in the same school)? Call them? (I know their...

This is what happened last Friday. I went there without my daughter, and soon he arrived with his two daughters. The girls were dressed up in their blouses and skirts as usual, and their father...

OK, how old do they have to be?

Do you have to wear a uniofmr? If so, which clothes?

How old is your daughter.

I agree. Probably many did in the 19th century, but that was not today's society.

If I go there on Friday and discover him, but he doesn't shout at his daughters that time, do you think I still shall try to talk with him that time, or wait for another time?

Maybe it's not officially emotional child abuse, but I'm worried for how all these years of shoutings will affect his daughters. It can make them sad, or afraid. Afraid of their parents, and afraid...

Yes, we also have our daughter dressed up in a blouse and a skirt for special events. She doesn't like it, but does it too. . It's what I have heard, that their parents are super strict with so much....

Like other I have also told my daughter not getting her blouse dirty with a strict voice when she's dressed up, but not shouting like that. If she starts to cry we always comfort her and talk, not...

As I said, I'm going to talk to him the next time I see him. I'm not going to talk angry, just tell how I feel, and how upset my little daughter has been.

Thanks for posting. I will tell him. I don't fear abuse, but that they have no childhood, and are just always supposed to appear perfect. A girl spilling on her blouse sleeve by accident is no reason...

As I said before, I've seen their mother too, but just sometimes. She also acts strict to them, telling them what to do and not, but at least not shouting at her daughter's that way. The girls behave...

What do you think of starting with asking him why he seems always requiring his daughers being so well-dressed (they mostly wear white blouses and black skirts, sometimes white button shirts and...

Depends a lot between things like?

*"Age"?
*"Countries"
*"Employers"?
*"Experiences"?

Thanks. Our daughter is still crying. We comfort her, she knows we will never threat her so (even if we thik behaviour is important too, and dress for special events). She says she feels sorry for...

Do you thin I shall tell him in front of his children, or try like if he goes away or something (like returning from the toilet).

When you talk of it, I think I will go there next Friday, without our daughter and tell him. Our daughter is crying now again. The problem is that if he stops shouting or going there, I don't how...

Why did she scream? Did they behave bad? How did it end? Was she drunk? He is definitely not. But as she seemed to scream psychotic with as high noise as possible, he first look into their eyes, then...

Sad. Even if we are angry at our daughter sometime, we always comfort her if she begins to cry and tell her how we love her. But he just seems to continue to shout at them, even when they start...

I've heard someone who did it, he just said it was his children.

Usually visiting a restaurant in town on Friday afternoons, we often see a family where the father (his wife isn't there often, just sometimes) acts strict, but rather than a parent, more like a 20th...