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That is an interesting conspiracy theory twist on what happened.

McCain.

Grab an accounting book and look it up. If you think you'll have ongoing questions like this, a good college level accounting book could be a great reference to have around.

Good luck!!

Will the biological mother talk with you? Maybe she would allow you to take over. Also, though, as a separate issue as in one does not follow the other, that baby needs to be taken care of. Do...

I would say given what you have written is true you probably should let her know that you care for her. Don't tempt her, and don't allow her to give in to her feelings for you if she has them and...

My wife and I lived together a while, a year, before we got married, but... and you never know, but, we thought we would in fact get married. We did. Without going into the morality of it or...

I only skimmed your question. I wish I knew for sure the answer, but I will say, in beginning to study irrigation systems earlier this year I found an awesome manual that is easy to read but also...

Did you dump him yet? That type of behavior is horrible. What if the next time he breaks your jaw, or arm, or worse? If you haven't dumped him, well, it shows hopefully that you are stronger and...

I wouldn't think that... that he can't without your hands because he did it alone too much. At 53, who knows by then. That isn't super old, but it isn't 18 or even 30 anymore either. By saying...

And one more, don't take it personally, but sorry, it's off, too, and maybe it's because I wrote it poorly, I'm not sure, but at no point did I ignore what you had to say. I never meant to tell you...

Well, I need help in figuring out what might be wrong, getting very good ideas like from you guys, and this is very serious. As you might have guessed, our name isn't really confusedbyitall :) so...

There are two details here...

I stated I might, would like to, show her these responses so please be respectful, as in, please if you have some cornball thing to say, don't, this is serious. I...

Thanks for your input, I appreciate it.

It wasn't that I disagree with your input, when it was input, but rather your assertions about harping on her and badgering her and on and on are just far...

We are 39. We were separated, not as in marital break up, but due to work and a storm at our house where we used to live, quite a few times, say 5, for a week to a few weeks over the years. I also...

Thank you for those ideas... I think you are right, those things could help, for sure!

This condensed version is an effort to stop us from going from discussion on Saturday night when she talked for the first time to a lawyer post haste. I am talking with you guys cause you are...

She does have a sense of humor. I like it most when we can even carry on our interactions just joking around. Sometimes she isn't in a mood to get up for that, you know? She isn't the painfully...

Were you eavesdropping on our discussion yesterday evening?? Wow! I did tell her that, too, and that I can do that. To her, what for me are things I see as easy, little changes I can make to help...

That is more and more hitting the spot, your observations are. Everyone's input and interaction is getting it fine tuned. This also is how she sees it... This isn't me putting words in her mouth...

By assumption, I mean, in referring to my original post, she'll assume I am in a bad mood or grumpy when I'm not. I spend most of every day at total peace. I'm happy! She doesn't inquire, and...

THAT IS IT!! Sorry if that wasn't clear earlier. See, this is a great example. There was some discussion, someone said, hey, this doesn't seem so "perfect" after all. What does he mean...

I can see how it might come across that way in writing here on the computer without a fuller picture. I by no means direct or tell her what to think or anything like that. What I was referring to...

She had said she isn't getting out of the relationship what she thinks she should, but couldn't say anything she thought she should get. That was before yesterday when we talked for quite a while...

Talaniman,

Earlier on, say 4 to 5 years into our marriage, it became apparent that she didn't have anything for herself. She was staying at home with the kids, and that was important to us, but...

Smokedetector and N0help4u,

Thanks to you two, also, for taking the time to comment. Smoke, that sums it up very well. We talked yesterday. It was tough for her, but she made that effort in...

That is a great question. I do listen. I hear. We both have gone through intensive communication training both by profession and by way of her dad who is an expert in the area. Their take on...

Sometimes guys joke around about things in a way I don't like. I am straight, but not homophobic. Supposedly straight guys will say things that are almost flirty. Sort of, but not really, if that...

I've read some things that say precum doesn't have sperm in it, now, as opposed to previous studies. If he came in you, though, you did have it in you a while. It sounds like it was an OK time of...

I am a guy who has looked at and enjoys some porn. I will say, those pictures could have been for him to get himself aroused ahead of time. It's not necessarily you. Now, it could be that he has...

To be more technical...
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What is a sexual encounter? How many people were asked and where?

I would think the number of women who have thought about it seriously to some little extent, or...

There are a few things here.

I believe you are great looking. It sounds like sex is good. You are open, which is a part of it being good. He said he wouldn't, but... He is probably hiding...

Ok, I just glanced at some of your posts after the original one... You broke up for a while, which means he probably was with someone else. Given he likes anal, which is the most risky behavior, is...

I am very open, super open, sexually... You are in a thing that just isn't right. Tell him either to wear a condom and go for it, do it with someone else, if that is what you'd prefer to stay with...

For a guy the desire to impregnate a woman can be very strong, either way... And for women, too, the desire to get pregnant can be strong, or not at all. One girl I knew in high school, as I found...

If you want to try it, why not suggest you start with a drink or two, some hanging out, flirting, and set some rules. If you are willing to go all the way, you think, why not start with flirting and...

Yes and yes.

I'd say leave it natural. I've had a circumcision, but, I do hear it's more sensitive without it being trimmed. Even though it's sensitive without the foreskin, if it were more sensitive, then...

Simone,

Also keep in mind that over history, the labels of what a whig is, what a Republican is, what a Democrat is, what a Libertarian (more recent label) is, have changed. The example I'll...

Choux, I wish I could talk with you to find out how they did that, without touching you! Really, I wish I could do that. Write an e-mail if you can!

Simone, I would say it is great especially if...

It sounds like you can see fine, is that right, but the question is whether it might just be bad enough vision during the driver's exam that the eye test might cause you difficulties? If that is the...

God isn't evil. Your logic in the statement is correct, yes. But are the statements upon which you base the logic correctly interpreted to begin with? I'd say no. It is, though, a good question...

Simone,

I'd say that, and as grown consenting adults, as long as you aren't hurting anyone else, do it if you want, if you want to have some fun (forget the live-in situation), with an ex isn't...

The part of men running around doing anything that classifies as completely normal behavior, at times at least, to blow off steam, is about the same behavior that you might note between little girls...

Simone,

I talked with some other guys about this back in the day when I was 25 and not 39, but, in short, some guys never could stay up. Some have had a hard time going a second time even after a...

I have done that in front of someone before while she also pleased herself. It felt sort of naughty, lol, but good. We had been going at it for a while that day, and it was probably the third or...

Judy Kay Tee and Simone,

Thanks for your input so far. Judy, I'd say what you've said is true. It can just happen, I guess. Our issue lies in communication and a perception on her part of what...

I don't know what your husband did exactly, obviously, and you didn't describe much, but if he beat you... I don't feel I'd recommend anything other than what might be considered instigating speech....

I would say, don't throw away love. She has issues. She's dealing with the real one right now. See how it is after she's had treatment. If she has stayed with you, and shows you love, genuinely,...

Can you love him if he flirts around? Do you love him? Does he show love to you? Does he want to be single just to feel better about himself if he does go with another woman for a while, or is it...

Guys looking at nude women. Women, some more openly than others, like watching porn, too, especially if it's together with their guy...

Have you talked with him about his not throwing you a...